My Prison mate

Chose your prison mate carefully

The wedding ring is the smallest handcuff that is used to sentence partners to life imprisonment (for better for worse) That is why you must carefully select your prison mate to enjoy your life sentence.
There are different kinds of prison for example...Imprisonment with hard labour,house arrest.etc ..It's up to you to make your life sentence enjoyable...

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How to wash your vagina

It's always better to stroke with your hands from the vagina to the anus, that way you wash off all the impurities. Once you are done wash your hands thoroughly with soap. Please subscribe, share, comment and like My Instagram handle: @VivienNwandu Twitter: Xpresurself_Tv

Chrome stoned nail polish -DIY...O.P.I

Hold on guys the part two gives us the process at which I used O.P.I chrome powder to get the perfect nails....I did add a bit of touch to it by adding stones The full process is right on my Instagram page :@ VivienNwandu

Christmas vibes

How are you spending your Christmas??????

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A little game at the office during break period

Yes, I think it's attainable to play a short game to ease the tension during your break period at the office. Do you have any that you play? Here are some the reasons why you need to ease your brain at the office

Signs to identify a bad employee

For every business to strive, you need to have the right employees that way you don't have to lose money or potential clients. Three signs to spot a bad employee...... Late to work Full of excuses They don't take corrections. Do not be based be sentiments or else your business will gradually die.

simple sign to identify a bad boss

No employee wants to work for a boss who is a perfectionist...what do I mean by that...you are always monitoring your employee's movement...no breathing space for him or her to feel relaxed and do his or her job the best way he or she knows how. Which results in constant nagging. An employee who knows his or her worth will like space to bring in his or her expertise........ It is only when you have tested him and he is incompetent then you can fire him, frequent nagging further pushes him away from doing what he knows best.

Destination Disease

Life can be quite challenging and if time is not taken the kind of mind set and friends you hang around with can make or break you lose your destination. There so many hurdles along the way but how do you carry on though???????

It takes two to tango

Whatever you want to attract ,you have to work towards it …….If you want your opposite sex to give you a head, you have to learn to give him a blow job......I am just using this as an example. This I call …...unspoken words in a relationship

Are you stressed??????

Here is a little trick to relief you of that stress.... a Soothing, relaxing & muscle toning leg &foot massage
You can have someone massage with their bare hands just for 20mins and you see the magic behind it
See the look on my face when I had this foot massage....just a gentle reminder what foot massage does to the body...…
Decreases feeling of anxiety, reduces headache & migraine.....it actually makes you sleep better.....


You can have someone massage your foot with their hands....it doesn't have to be with a machine.

My goal is for these ladies to have a voice

Most of these ladies are not really professional models....some of them are doctors, lawyers….. etc
To be goal driven and be focused is not a one's day job.
Throw back video....thought this might be helpful to someone.

Day and Night Switch look

Well ! you don't have to think TOO hard about it,, the solution is easy....simply have your day make up on a simple more natural look like this on this video with a nude lips stick, while it matches any outfit you decide to wear on that that day....then for an unexpected call that you should meet up for a drink...just do some touch up with smokey eyes without wiping off the earlier make up and more colourful lips stick....yay!!!!!!! you are ready to have some fun, looking all good, fresh and  stressed free


Thanks to you  Makeupricci for coming through....you made my day and night look some glam...…

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Eloy Nonmineee Award 2018

It really feels good to support your fellow women.......it makes the world a better place. So let me ask you have you supported any of your friend on any project he or she had set to do? According to Maya Angelou Quotes: I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did but people will never forget how you made them feel Do let us know what you did and how he or she felt......

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How to make yourself comfortable during a long flight

Some people fall sick during a long flight,some have anxiety over a long flight....... Here are some of my tips that might help you. Do subscribe, like, comment, share Instagram page : VivienNwandu Facebook: Xpressurselfshow Twitter handle: xpressurself_tv

Getting American visa is not by luck

How come some educated people think getting an American Visa is by luck? Please take a listen , you might be able to advise someone who has given up of getting a visa because he had spent sooooo much money without good result. Do subscribe, like, comment, share Instagram page : VivienNwandu Facebook: Xpressurselfshow Twitter handle: xpressurself_tv

I learnt to make Japanese meal at Mayumi Restaurant

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It is okay to be adventurous with other people's culture ......I know some people wont risk the fact of eating unknown food......... For the first time in my life am having a Japanese meal and I actually watched them make it This took about two hours Prawn Sushi and Salmon Sushi with a course meal: Potato salad,chicken&corncream soup, chicken steak,Beef Filet,Mixed vegetables,Fried rice with beef,then topped it up with fruit (Pino juice)& desert. It was delicious .... from their 105 varieties of food I chose the above. Do feel free to xpressurself on any foreign food you had and what made it special. Do subscribe, like, comment, share Instagram page :VivienNwandu Facebook: Xpressurselfshow Twitter handle: xpressurself_tv

Stop the stereotype

Not too long ago, an argument came up about two ladies, who were born from Edo parents, the parents live in Rivers state in Nigeria but schooled in Cross River and Akwa Ibom.

The argument came about when they said that Edo women are manipulative, ‘Edo no dey carry last” …they will do anything to achieve their purpose, while the Cross River and Akwa Ibom  are funny women…they flirt with  other people’s husbands,  while River state ladies are flirtatious…

Common now, all this they say this and that…., why don’t you have an experience with these tribes before you judge them……

I am not an expert but I think you should give people a chance.

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So what if you have an igbo man, a Lebanese man, Chinese man and an Indian in a business deal

Why personalise somebody, why…. you shouldn’t…..

Take a listen and I hope this changes your mind

Behind the scenes of my trip

From the time of my interview on the street of Time Square in Manhattan I had a fill of (Canada) Toronto and Central London Vibe, where all the big bill board of holly woods are easily seen, then headed straight down to Queens which kind of reminded me of Manchester in UK and Brampton(Canada), while Brooklyn was more of Birmingham vibe. Bronx was cool in a different way. While Staten Island was a fill of Coventry in England at Scotland vibe.

I did enjoy my stay and I hope you find your happiness wherever you are or wherever you are planning your vacation.

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Do all women have smelling Vagina?

There is nothing to be ashamed of, we women have very sensitive system compared to men.

Please take a listen to this video.

The other suggestion is to put a boiled water with sliced squeezed lime and a pinch of salt, sit on it  for about fifteen minutes……

You will always notice the difference and you will love yourself the more

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My walk at Brooklyn Bridge

It took me 45minutes to get to the end of the bridge.

This is the bridge that connects the boroughs of Manhattan and Brooklyn……………….

You know me!!!!!! as inquisitive as I am I needed to see how long it would take me to walk the bridge that took United states of America to build for fourteen years ……so I did it…………………………………        

Feel free to tell me what you make out of this video

Would you be in another man’s country for the rest of your life and why?

60-year-old Clad is from Guyana in South America but he has been in New York for over 35years

Before you answer that, take a listen at Clyde’s response when I asked him if he was going to die in another man’s land even though he visits Guyana occasionally.

I will not date or marry a man who is my friend’s ex

Karla says that money is not important to her and that even if a man is match made in heaven for her she will not date or marry such a man because she is her friend’s ex. even though the breakup ended on a good note.

 Can you date or marry your friend’s ex……..

Michael says he can marry a 60-year-old lady though he is only 25years old

He also said he can marry his brother’s ex and if he wins 100million dollars for sure he can abandon his family if that is the condition attached to the money.

Wow! Would you act like Michael or you have a different perceptive?

What would you do if you won 100million dollars with the condition that you have to disown your family, would you take it?

Karla is a Portuguese, and single too….she was also asked if she can date her girlfriend’s ex knowing fully well their relationship ended on a mutual ground with no grudges.

Hear what she has to say……

What would do?

Nigerians come abroad and start acting crazing throw our tradition to the bin…really…Hmm!

They turn our men to nannies…..

The title above is Ken’s opinion about the Nigerian women who come abroad and forget about the Nigerian tradition as wives to their husbands. Ken has been living in the United States of America for over six years, he is of the opinion that most Nigerian men prefer to marry other races instead of their very own because the Nigerian women turn the men to nannies once they are married, they play they role men.

They cannot serve their husbands food when they get back from work, that there is no point marrying them instead let them marry foreigners and know that it is foreigners that they married.

Hmmm! This is the part two of the earlier video shown.

Guys what is your take on this?

My experience at the Central Park New York City

So much has been talked about this park so I decided to take a whole day to go round it, I met so many people from all over the world…and each has one or two things to talk about it…. take a listen.

Personal I enjoyed the serenity.

If you have an experience you want to share with us on your journey to any place in the world, please do feel free to share with us here on this platform.

The whole idea is that no knowledge is a waste and nobody knows it all no matter how exposed you are or how well traveled you are

Before you judge me,I will be uploading the video my personal trip to my home town soonest.....

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Why is it that when Nigerians come abroad they do not marry their fellow Nigerians?

Take a listen and hear what some of the Nigerians have to say concerning marrying other races when they come abroad…they take pleasure in marry a foreigner because they feel they at peace and safer…. Ken says the Nigerian women change,the become westernized and live a culture less character,they forget the Nigerian culture,they don't respect their husbands,treat them like trash...so they rather face the American ladies. He says that the American Ladies respect them more than the Nigerian ladies. Really? Do you agree


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What has kept you this far,What do you love most for staying so long abroad

Here at Time Square I am asking why do Nigerians come abroad and do not marry their fellow Nigerians instead they prefer to marry somebody else from another country or continent. A Lady was asked if she won a lottery with millions of dollars will she stay back here in the states and forget her own country and face a new luxurious life style or will she reject the money and go back to her own poor laid back country????....take a listen at her response Also a gentle man was asked if he can marry someone much older than him,and what is the age age difference tolerance.......he says a 60 year old is lady he can marry even though he is just years.....though this guy is an American citizen, he was also asked if he can date his brothers's ex.....he says yes and he can still marry her if the chemistry is right.

Really? These videos will be shared in the next few days.Before then lets hear your opinion on these topics.

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The man shows genuine love in a relationship,women dont respect their partner if he has financial challenges

Who loves genuinely in a relationship that leads marriage? what are the signs...and after marriage does that same person still display such love...
What are the signs they he or she still shows that love.

According to people who were interviewed,most of them said its the man who shows genuine love,that when a man loves he loves unconditionally but the women  check the credit score...(if he still has money)? That most cases the women are gold diggers....when a man is financially challenged he loses respect from his other partner....

 Really?
Please feel free to xpressurself on this matter

What is the different between making love and having sex?

Take a listening at amazed at the response ...... A lady said … why would I call my man special...that God made everyone special, that if he was special he would provide her   all that she needs without her asking...that he is just a wonderful person.......... While a man is on the opinion that his wife is a wonderful person.... that wonderful is high rated than telling a woman that she is special... REALLY?

One of the ladies said that women most times have sex with their husbands because most times they are not in the mood.........
Hmmmm, is this true?

CASH is KING.....Vivien Nwandu

Cash is king! really? Don't get me wrong, being rich is great,infact .....in Davivdo's voice ' love is sweet,........when money enter love is sweeter'.....indeed it's so.......But can you honestly tell me that CASH is King?.....what happens when you have all the money in the world and you are all alone? With all your money you are not living healthy life....just because of mispriorities ............I am not an expert on these issues but I can only give little suggestions...... You need to spend quality time with your loved ones...your children,your spouse....have an indoor game,crack jokes,create fun......for your spouse write a sweet note leave it where she can see it.....switch off your phone for at least an hour or two when you are with her.....women surprise your man with a gift he loves...it might just be a simple little gift he cherishes...... Create the habit of regular exercise......it does soothe the body and makes you more productive at your work place.

What do you do when you have a wardrobe malfunction during a beauty pageant.

Yes! ladies this a true life story...a lady sent me a video of her story with her ripped beautiful outfit in a beauty pageant, a malicious act done by her fellow contestant who saw her as a threat to the competition, she ended up quitting. For the sake of privacy the real identity will not be mentioned. Today have decided to xpress myself with my rumpled and slightly torned evening dress to demonstrate to you that you can still pull it off.... to show you that when life gives you a lemon ,you can make a lemonade out of it....... The same people you think will criticize you will see the ...elegance,the class, the poise and confidence in you. Do you want to be the next Agbani Darego? then common and xpressurself.

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I found the one! love is sweet o!

Consistency is key Common now and xpressurself with me.

Nobody is ugly! it's all about packaging! stop this cyberbully- Vivien Nwandu

Yes! I said it,nobody is ugly....you are beautiful!Do't be bullied...stop this cyberbully

Nobody is ugly as far as I am concerned,it's all about branding(packaging)Even those that have flaws win beauty pageant. It's all about confidence, Stop envying those you see on social media....see some of the tricks they apply. You too can Xpressurself and look just as gorgeous as they are.

Men stop comparing! a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush -Vivien Nwandu

Men are easier to please than women….(quote)..Fair enough. But you men need to cherish what you have…remember that saying a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush! In my last post I talked about what value is a woman adding in her partner’s life… Today I am asking the men apart from providing finances, what other ways can you make your partner see you as ‘one in a million’ Remember money cannot buy love……(you don’t want to be the type who just provide money and your partner ‘still’ cheats on you….

Ok its time for us to xpress ourselves on some of the issues men forget most times…

I will focus more on
1.Touch
2.Communication
3.Affirmation
4.Gift
5.Service
 I only used tiny weening illustrations in this video. Please men if your woman adds weight and you do not like it, don’t call her ‘fat’, don’t avoid making love to her…and verbally saying until you lose weight you can’t get the best of me in the bedroom….it’s a no!no!

The words you use on spouse is very important, it can make or break a relationship, we women live by words and memories which makes up actions. Men try to imagine yourself as a wife or girlfriend for one day….(you see my point…it ain’t easy

Women try to imagine yourself as a husband or boyfriend for one day (you see my point..it aint easy. Stop comparing your woman with those women you see on Instagram...or social media..most cases the photos are photoshopped or airbrushed..have you seen these women without make up?

Do know some of them wear magic waist bands... Woman that man you are comparing with your man because he has a posh car..latest SUV..do you know if he used his last dime to purchase it...do you know his source of income? For more scope follow me on my Ig:

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What value are you adding to your man as a wife or girlfriend

To all my beautiful ladies it’s time for us to Xpress ourselves on this serious issue about what value we are adding to the men in our lives…..what value are you adding to your man or boyfriend or your partner….. In Africa it is the duty of a man to provide for his family or for his partner. To those dating it is the guy that provides for his girl………. Even the bible says it’s a man's duty to provide for the home…..but remember as a woman its your duty to support him. I was prompted to xpress this as a result of the loads of email I got from some men on how they have suffered in the hands of their women in so many instances, I am going to focus on just these crucial points for now 1. An Emotional abuse 2. Sex deprivation 3. Lack of Appreciation It is not that the men do not have their own issues …O yes! they do and we will be tackling that in our next video…….Men you guys cannot do without us..ooooo and they are fully aware of it. Women are strong o! it is really not easy being a woman but we love it…right ladies……........lol Common now and Xpressurself………

Falling inlove with your grey -Vivien Nwandu

Grey hair is not determinant of your age! so common now and xpress ur natural hair!

Love wisely -Vivien Nwandu

To all my beautiful ladies who work so hard .......

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Healthy,bouncy natural hair

Its all my natural hair, who says you hair cannot be healthy and bouncy.......
Common now and xpressur natural hair

Vivien Nwandu@ Lagos Business School for Africa Opportunity Realization in Africa -2018

Vivien Nwandu short interview with Ebony Tv OAP Marcy Dolapo oni Sijuwade@ the Africa Business Conference.....also Maiatafo and Omoyemiakerele share their experiences on Fashion. Click here to watch video

at the Lagos Business Nigeria Mrs  Obiageli Ezekwesili asked a very important question in her speech...is it better to build or rebuild Nigeria?

Laviv Kitchen has got your back any day any time

All kinds of food for breakfast, lunch,dinner, even for brunch,Laviv Kitchen has your back.

Assorted  barbecued/Grilled Dishes,Chinese(VIP Spread),Special(Nigerian Dishes); Ox tail pepper soup,Chicken Pepper Soup,Assort Goat Pepper soup,Isi -Ewu,Nkwobi...others inclde Editan soup,Affang soup,ekpan nkukwo,eforiro,Egusi,Ewedu

For weddings,parties,Birthday order with these number:09074519298, Laviv Kitchen has  got your back

who really does this after exercise -Vivien Nwandu

 

Nawo! eh what kind of  indiscipline is this???? who licks a bowl of ice cream immediately after exercising......lol! please dont try this o! click here and here

Make yourself a priority -Vivien Nwandu

Dont give up,keep striving ....sometimes you feel like it's not working when you've given it all your shots but hey maybe what you need is a different strategy or being around positive people the last thing you need is to resent yourself... even if it means being calm at that moment so you can think properly or do things you love......click here  and here

Become a super star over night just like Oyinda for voicing out on my show

Pretty Oyinda who is not afraid or holds any apology for expressing herself on my show got invited to appear on Pulse Tv, after they watched her my on youtube.......

This weekend an argument arose about a certain lady who has never traveled abroad but she exudes class and royal background...she gets  backlash for being herself...lets start by asking who is considered classy and trashy?
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Prostitution, Money Exchange and Feminism -Vivien Nwandu

Oyinda says some men call their women(girlfriends) prostitute when they ask for money….she says it is not right and such women should get out of the relationship if the men are not ready to take care of them… or not supporting their businesses, how can they be having free sex just like that?????

She is of the opinion that a prostitute is an enterprise and those who engage in it know that it’s business for them and they are not ashamed of admitting to it,they ask for money before or after the sex, that it is of two different world, your girlfriend is your responsibility and a prostitute is a whore no mistaken about that.
In a relationship! Is a stingy man an irresponsible person? Hear what my guests said they should do to that man.

If you are dating a rich man and he says he will not give you money until you marry him, will you continue to date him????

If you work in a highly paid organization say you are earning 1million  naira should your spouse or boyfriend continue to give you monthly allowance?

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Banky was caught in the middle when he says the right thing to do is to abstain from sex before marriage….

Banky went on to say some women are feminist but they do not want to take the position of that. Asking for equal right of that of a man, then they should be willing to pay bills and take the responsibilities men do.