Wednesday, 3 January 2018

Prostitution, Money Exchange and Feminism -Vivien Nwandu



Oyinda says some men call their women(girlfriends) prostitute when they ask for money….she says it is not right and such women should get out of the relationship if the men are not ready to take care of them… or not supporting their businesses, how can they be having free sex just like that?????
She is of the opinion that a prostitute is an enterprise and those who engage in it know that it’s business for them and they are not ashamed of admitting to it,they ask for money before or after the sex, that it is of two different world, your girlfriend is your responsibility and a prostitute is a whore no mistaken about that.
In a relationship! Is a stingy man an irresponsible person? Hear what my guests said they should do to that man.
If you are dating a rich man and he says he will not give you money until you marry him, will you continue to date him????
If you work in a highly paid organization say you are earning 1million  naira should your spouse or boyfriend continue to give you monthly allowance?
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Banky was caught in the middle when he says the right thing to do is to abstain from sex before marriage….
Banky went on to say some women are feminist but they do not want to take the position of that. Asking for equal right of that of a man, then they should be willing to pay bills and take the responsibilities men do.

141 comments:

Ada said...

Oyinda is on point some men are full of shit,they want to chop but wont want to take of the lady.
My girl Oyinda you spoke every woman's mind.
Thank you for that.

Mrs Dapo said...

This show is airing on what channel.
Please let us get the station. I want to participate. I showed my husband,the part where Oyinda talked about don't impose it on a woman is an eye opener. I married my husband as an expatriate and obviously i earned more but he tried to make it look like its my duty to take care of the home,pay school fees,pay house rent,it was a problem o that external family had to intervene.
Luckily he for him he got a better offer which gave good money and far better than mine.
I was ready to pack my belongings,because the thought of be being a mother, a wife and now he wants to turn me to a man by doing what he should be doing was like someone just used a digger into my stomach. The first one month during the fight i was already looking 10times older than my age.

Seyi said...

How many Ibo man can do that,NEVER the ibo is too proud,he knows the rule as a man.I am not surprised that coming from the Yoruba. I have sworn not to marry from my tribe,the Yoruba have no regards for their woman

Max said...

Oyinda is blabbing. Vivien next time put her and mike so he can quietly put her in her place.

agwo said...

Laugh wan kill me o Oyinda take it easy na or na from experience

Arn said...

I love the topics

Terrence said...

Banky is a gentle man he was trying to be civil that is why i like mike and victoria he gave it to her

April said...

Vivien's style is very subtle,she throws the bomb shell questions and leave the quests to break their head. I like it, its different no too much interruptions like what you see and hear on radio,they ask questions and they end up giving out the answers.
But the sound was low
Well done vivien.

Tantua said...

Banky throw away face dier which is sex after marriage. That is why you find men cheating on their wives because they did not test the water before diving.
Everyone out there test the water first or else you wont believe what will follow you after wards.
My cousin is still in shock from the mistake he made marrying before sexing his woman

Juliet said...

Laugh wan kill me here. Which one be wait till he marries me,the man na goat

Kemi said...

Vivien you have to pay me for this ear piece i just bought simply to hear yourguests

philip said...

Oyinda like so many women like the idea of feminism but wont want to take the responsibility that goes with it.
They want to eat their cake and have it.

tani said...

Yes there is a big difference between free sex and sex for money,free sex you no wan do but you wan please the man,yet you no ask for money.
Its clear and simple.
Vivien is a clever host and that is why she was asking again and again what is prostitution,u na dey there they give dictionary definition

Tunde said...

There is nothing like free sex,when a woman is married or dating she gets money from the man,to take care of her. This will never change, abroad something has to give it may not be money, it may be time and emotions.is it easy to be devoted to one person?

Deji said...

@tunde you are talking out point

Peace said...

Oyinda which one be girl child for the matter

Pappy said...

Oyinda even if it is only motivational speech he gives, a woman will also demand for money,i get you but that your motivational speech no hold water

Moyal said...

Typical of Tiwa Savage and her hubby. it was real lesson for most women.

Ken said...

Man woman matter its never ending

Prey said...

Prostitution,exchange and feminism very catchy.
i couldnt upload but got the gist from the write up.

Aliba said...

Let me be your sound man. fire that guy he does not know his work

Wale said...

Is my Oyinda feeling like a star

Tina said...

Its true Oyinda is just feeling.
One day too me i will appear on camera

Tolulope said...

I really love Oyinda on this show,she said the truth. Men should take care of their women

ayeni said...

Banky how can you say Nigeria is ready for female president,how?

Gbenro said...

Omo! una try,i played this in my car when i get home i will settle down to watch.

Sophie said...

Nigerian men are full of it, i cannot see my self with one

Tutu said...

As Christians it is the right thing to do but do they themselves practice abstaining from sex. dont let me expose some pastors that secretly sleep with virgins

Maya said...

Hypocrites everywhere. Interesting topic

Chibuo said...

@sophie you are yarning dust,i am sure you leave in okokomiako and want to claim not dating Nigerian men. are your parents not Nigerian?
Not every man is a man according to Victoria,so dont be rubbishing us.

Opeyemi said...

There is no free sex and having sex for fun the man still have to drop money

Daudu said...

Banky you are talking as if we men will willigly give you money without having sex with them,lets face the truth we men ensure we chop well for what we are maintaining

Ehis said...

Prostitution is a business enterprise. shine your eye. Oyinda you dont know that there are highly classified prostitutes. Our Nigerian actresses from Geneieve to Omosexy to Stephenie and all these mushroom actresses are doing runz highly classified how can they come out ad declare publicly that they are prostitutes.
Dubai runz,you will see a banker demanding for money to a client to sleep with him so she can get him as a client to open an account in her bank.

Funke said...

2017 was full of stingy men this year i have told myself if any stingy man gets in my way i will publicly disgrace him

Benta said...

Gbam! Oyinda thank you.

Ejiro said...

Stupid man. I shud starve with all your money abi. Untill i get married to you,they no born well

Ngozi said...

Stingy is a stingy. My mother will say money only amplies who you are.

Fome said...

Yes Oyinda nailed it. Foolish men they use different types of schemes to be little a woman,tools and cat calling.
Those words dont bother me,he must drop. How can he funk me for free.Which side.

Sanwo said...

How you know a man is stingy ask him to take you out and you end up coming with your friends,if he manages to buy for you and your friend and watches you guys eat, take off,he is stingy,he did not eat because he is counting how much he has spent on you and your friends

tammy said...

Please bring Mike udoh back on this topic,he would have given us another food for thought on this issue. banky is not telling it as it should.

mic said...

Men who dont have work swoop roles

lola said...

Informative topics.
the creator,the producer you guys rock

Taller said...

I love this babe,Vivien you are too much

Ebi said...

men stop blackmailing us o,or i will call Oyinda to come and fight for us.
But the truth shud be said men use all sort of tools to discourage a girl from asking

kanayo said...

Oyinda my girl,this was for you banky was to reserved

kris said...

Oyinda tell these lazy men. Tell them

Bisi said...

Yes a man is the provider and protector

Temi said...

Vivien are you a Nigerian?

Udu said...

Oyinda shhhh! free sex exist

Ogbolahun said...

Vivien I think banky gave you the answer on free sex

princess said...

Why is Banky is trying not to offend Oyind why? when she said when girl complains in a r/ship its ok,you said no it wrong and later said its ok,stick to ur opinion.

sesan said...

Men do they want to be men or nay love oyinda

Olushola said...

We need Oyinda and mike together to talk about this topic,Vivien it will over heat. we are looking forward to it.

Mekan said...

Vivien that your expression when you were asking what is free sex is priceless

Amara said...

Is marriage like a price? what you see in a relationship is what you get in a marriage. Oyinda i have fallen in love with you,you said gbam

Adiele said...

I love your show,you are so beautiful.Love your voice everything about you. Please i want to come for your show,I will love to meet you in person

Joe said...

Great topic but poor sound and noise from the background,didnt the sound man filter the noise?

Yale said...

Women are looked down all over the world. some advanced countries it is not too obvious but it is there

Ronke said...

men pick a struggle. are you a man or nay

Clinton said...

Na people like Oyinda wey make me run from having a girlfriend,her sense is too much and her mouth too sharp

Lalu said...

Which one be modern world,same men will say i dont want processed food,i dont want any maid cooking my food

Bukky said...

Men are like babies,same man will tell you i want you to hand pick my undies and put them in the washing machine as if my hand will do magic if the maid does not that

mark said...

marriage is a conquest to find a good woman to marry now, it is easier for a camel to go through the need than see the a good woman to marry

Sanusi said...

This topic na die.
How una come up with the questions

Adeyanju said...

Oyinda is a feminist

Keye said...

Classy show. tasteful

bigbe said...

Asking for money is prostitution. SIMPLE

Yemisi said...

So as a married woman whose husband sleeps every week with her and each week she needs money so she asks him immediately before sex or after sex, is she a prostitute?

desmond said...

Most women ask their husbands for money before sex, because that is when the men will listen very well,it has become their style

Lois said...

What makes you a man?
Oyinda you are darling thank you

alade said...

These two should get married they look so beautiful together

aguda said...

How many women can give out 100% of what they claim want equal right how?when. no matter how we try to copy the white man it ain't going to happen see the developed world it is not really there its just the law that has contained it

Debbia said...

Love you Vivien.Your show you gave the impression of not knowing it all,carefully allowing the audience to air their views without interrupting by letting us know its your show,its cool and classing.Others should take note. #toke makinwa relationship expert...lol

Sonia said...

I conqur, there shld be a line between a career and a personal life

Aisha said...

A Nigerian man wld want to fuck da hell out of yu for every damn money he puts on you

Bennie said...

If you give a man an opportunity he will want to have free sex for as long as you are allow him. It is only a responsible who know how to take care of a woman

Isreal said...

@ Desmond that means all women are prostitute because they ask their husbands too for money when they want to have sex r after sex,@bigbe that justifies his statement

Josh said...

The lady yarning dust on how to know who is stingy by taking his girlfriend out with er friends and him not eating,have you thought of he had lunch somewhere else before taking them out,that is a dumb way to analyse it.

Kingsley said...

No mind am all the Toke makinwa wanna be na them they fall mugu pass. see how mouth like she knows how to detect a stingy guy

pauline said...

A responsible man should not be stingy,he should be happy to see his woman happy.when he is spending on her there should be joy in doing so.

Edwin said...

This is not an avenue to toss here o concentrate on the topic.
Some people sef

Warren said...

Ah Banky you sef fall hand,how can you say Nigeria don ready for female president

Kimberly said...

Free sex,and sex for fun are the same thing

Anonymous said...

Interesting.

Unknown said...

Oh my!
Vivien you killed it,looking good.
Good show.

Cassandra Akinde said...

Hmmmn,what about unwanted STIs,HIV and pregnancies.You really think its worth it?

Cassandra Akinde said...

😱😱😱😱

uju said...

Thank you cassandra i was going to say that.
Men want arwuf...free things

Pius said...

Women are like eggs so all these men talking nonsense how did you woo your wives. Did you not impress with your money.
I spoil my wife silly before i married her

Abeywu said...

Isn't it better to pick the ashe and pay less,besides variety is the spice of life.

lieli said...

Relentless vivien ,love too much. 6years you have been chasing your passion

Erem said...

Oyinda your parents were married to give birth to you

Luka said...

No man is innocent,we all fornicate.
Erem are u a virgin?

Indidi said...

Stingy men do not change so are rude people it is there nature

Tessy said...

You guys should talk some senses to my cousin,she has been dating this good for no man,he is even stingy to himself. My cousin sold almost her property to help his business,he earns N2million every 3months ordinary car he cannot buy for her,she has been using same old car for the past five years.
I think he has jazzed her.

Randy said...

who pays for the washer man because you need somebody to put the clothes in the machine and iron them too.
I am a man and we should act like one.

Rufus said...

Oyinda mouth dey run sha

Aweleka said...

Intelligent people intelligent answers

Kemdi said...

ok

Oka said...

Nothing like feminism,we men are the captain of the ship. That is why Dami and Chris Arthur divorced. you cannot have two captain in a ship.

Iyang said...

@cassandra, you should always use condom,do not sleep with any man who is not your spouse unprotected

Wobi said...

Women and Money, they were born to demand for money. If not Adam will not have fallen into sin,who was the cause? was it not woman.

Elechi said...

Men can blackmail,they act like babies

Babra said...

Not impressed with Banky's anwer where Oyinda asked "so if a man is naturally stingy and she is demanding for money by saying i am " iam even sleeping with you and you are not giving me money''
I am a woman but that is a horrible way to demand or ask for money.

Omoya said...

Please.please hold up! babra what are you saying so its ok to be asking a man for money,is he a child that wont know that he should give his woman money without her asking and then she now ask and he is calling her names,is it ok??babra eh,all this hyporites trying too hard to be a good picture here.
A man who is stingy and gets rude response should not complain.

Alex said...

A rude woman is no go area for us all men,its repulsive

Idada said...

We all love Vivien well done

Timber said...

Women are just wahala

Bassey said...

I have borrowed money to spend on a girl only for her to turn her back on me,she was sleeping with another man for free,so sorry i dont regard women anymore

Chuks said...

I must see the girl naked before i drop any more money,give a girl my hard earned money for ds recession for free say watin happen

Chindo said...

Stingy men were born stingy,is not that the dabbled into wealth,its their nature,i once dated one i had to run for my dear life. He was rich but to spend the money was a problem.
I dont know if he thinks he will go with the money when he dies

Bano said...

@Chindo,maybe he belongs to secret cult

ola.P said...

I wonder all these women who open their skirt for men without protection and the men are not married them,if they were my sister i will slap the hell out her face

Theo said...

You must be dumb @Isreal,marriage is a contract with witnesses and it is the only recognized contract in a relationship.,that your statement put all men and human to shame.

Emily said...

Let all women say the truth we relate sex with money

Naroooh said...

Banky seems shy talking about this topic,Oyinda is very comfortable and she was pouring out her heart

Prince said...

Women fear them o,they can ruin your life

Smith said...

Love the set up very cool

Tiwa said...

The director should control the external sound next time,but quite interesting

Daisy said...

We women deserve the best however it is

Belinda said...

An engaging show

Ebemba said...

Feminism serious matter. Nigerian women are trying so hard to copy copy the whites but it can never work
We are Africans nothing can change that.

Kumbo said...

To be quite honest Oyinda made good points

Florence.Y said...

Banky please be more real next time

Gbemi said...

Kudos to you guys

Ojo said...

Banky even when you said there was no sound of conviction from your mouth.

Chimizi said...

Laugh wants to kill me here o.
How is Nigeria ready,when ordinary being a female president in small organizations are as tough as going to see babalawo

Riwa said...

Hiss.
A society where the male thinks a woman's position is the kitchen and bedroom

Kinat said...

Another man's meat is another man's poison.
A classy person does not have to come from a wealthy home,i think a class is something you are born with
In my school Atlantic Hall,the son of one of the richest people in Nigeria does not display any of the qualities yes he buys designers but his attitude is appalling. He eats like a dog,his manner of dressing very ghetto if you ask me,but the outfits i know are costly. His combo is repelling

Erena said...

A trash is a prostitute they are many of them,they are coded ones like the actresses. Geneieve Nnaji but she set d pace for the rest of her colleagues. She appears all classy from the outside but what this W***e did to my rich uncle was unforgivable 200,8 till today he has not recovered.
Toke Makinwa I cannot stand her. as fake as her looks so is her trashy attitude,she can deceive those little girls who are still finding their feet certainly not learned people like us

Adeosun said...

different strokes for different folks, what i call class is different if i start to list it,it only for the cream d la cream

Adekunle said...

Some people look expensive and they have money but they are classless.
If someone wants it that bad they can pay to be classy or to become classy,but most of them dont care . They believe with their money they can get anything and the so called classy ones

Udom said...

Nigeria is not near there yet for a female president.
Banky keep dreaming till your grandchildren are 60years old

Emenike said...

she is forming jor

Pius said...

That mind all ds babes forming everywhere,there is this girl we all grew up in Ogba she has not crossed the bridge but if you hear her speak you will think she grew up and schooled in the US

James said...

Yes na it is called packaging most of the OAP never stepped their foot out of Lagos but their funne na die,but with time and good salary they got to travel out

Murphy said...

Who is classy and who is trashy,tough because everyone is forming

Kline said...

A classy person is always confident and comports him or herself anywhere not just in the public,while a trash will always be loud mouthed, talk out of point and want to show off at every given opportunity

Ifeoma said...

Interesting question.

Oke said...

Hmmn

Edo said...

Interesting