So what if you have an igbo man, a Lebanese man, Chinese man and an Indian in a business deal

Why personalise somebody, why…. you shouldn’t…..

Take a listen and I hope this changes your mind

Behind the scenes of my trip

From the time of my interview on the street of Time Square in Manhattan I had a fill of (Canada) Toronto and Central London Vibe, where all the big bill board of holly woods are easily seen, then headed straight down to Queens which kind of reminded me of Manchester in UK and Brampton(Canada), while Brooklyn was more of Birmingham vibe. Bronx was cool in a different way. While Staten Island was a fill of Coventry in England at Scotland vibe.

I did enjoy my stay and I hope you find your happiness wherever you are or wherever you are planning your vacation.

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Do all women have smelling Vagina?

There is nothing to be ashamed of, we women have very sensitive system compared to men.

Please take a listen to this video.

The other suggestion is to put a boiled water with sliced squeezed lime and a pinch of salt, sit on it  for about fifteen minutes……

You will always notice the difference and you will love yourself the more

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My walk at Brooklyn Bridge

It took me 45minutes to get to the end of the bridge.

This is the bridge that connects the boroughs of Manhattan and Brooklyn……………….

You know me!!!!!! as inquisitive as I am I needed to see how long it would take me to walk the bridge that took United states of America to build for fourteen years ……so I did it…………………………………        

Feel free to tell me what you make out of this video

Would you be in another man’s country for the rest of your life and why?

60-year-old Clad is from Guyana in South America but he has been in New York for over 35years

Before you answer that, take a listen at Clyde’s response when I asked him if he was going to die in another man’s land even though he visits Guyana occasionally.

I will not date or marry a man who is my friend’s ex

Karla says that money is not important to her and that even if a man is match made in heaven for her she will not date or marry such a man because she is her friend’s ex. even though the breakup ended on a good note.

 Can you date or marry your friend’s ex……..

Michael says he can marry a 60-year-old lady though he is only 25years old

He also said he can marry his brother’s ex and if he wins 100million dollars for sure he can abandon his family if that is the condition attached to the money.

Wow! Would you act like Michael or you have a different perceptive?

What would you do if you won 100million dollars with the condition that you have to disown your family, would you take it?

Karla is a Portuguese, and single too….she was also asked if she can date her girlfriend’s ex knowing fully well their relationship ended on a mutual ground with no grudges.

Hear what she has to say……

What would do?

Nigerians come abroad and start acting crazing throw our tradition to the bin…really…Hmm!

They turn our men to nannies…..

The title above is Ken’s opinion about the Nigerian women who come abroad and forget about the Nigerian tradition as wives to their husbands. Ken has been living in the United States of America for over six years, he is of the opinion that most Nigerian men prefer to marry other races instead of their very own because the Nigerian women turn the men to nannies once they are married, they play they role men.

They cannot serve their husbands food when they get back from work, that there is no point marrying them instead let them marry foreigners and know that it is foreigners that they married.

Hmmm! This is the part two of the earlier video shown.

Guys what is your take on this?

My experience at the Central Park New York City

So much has been talked about this park so I decided to take a whole day to go round it, I met so many people from all over the world…and each has one or two things to talk about it…. take a listen.

Personal I enjoyed the serenity.

If you have an experience you want to share with us on your journey to any place in the world, please do feel free to share with us here on this platform.

The whole idea is that no knowledge is a waste and nobody knows it all no matter how exposed you are or how well traveled you are

Before you judge me,I will be uploading the video my personal trip to my home town soonest.....

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Why is it that when Nigerians come abroad they do not marry their fellow Nigerians?

Take a listen and hear what some of the Nigerians have to say concerning marrying other races when they come abroad…they take pleasure in marry a foreigner because they feel they at peace and safer…. Ken says the Nigerian women change,the become westernized and live a culture less character,they forget the Nigerian culture,they don't respect their husbands,treat them like trash...so they rather face the American ladies. He says that the American Ladies respect them more than the Nigerian ladies. Really? Do you agree


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What has kept you this far,What do you love most for staying so long abroad

Here at Time Square I am asking why do Nigerians come abroad and do not marry their fellow Nigerians instead they prefer to marry somebody else from another country or continent. A Lady was asked if she won a lottery with millions of dollars will she stay back here in the states and forget her own country and face a new luxurious life style or will she reject the money and go back to her own poor laid back country????....take a listen at her response Also a gentle man was asked if he can marry someone much older than him,and what is the age age difference tolerance.......he says a 60 year old is lady he can marry even though he is just years.....though this guy is an American citizen, he was also asked if he can date his brothers's ex.....he says yes and he can still marry her if the chemistry is right.

Really? These videos will be shared in the next few days.Before then lets hear your opinion on these topics.

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The man shows genuine love in a relationship,women dont respect their partner if he has financial challenges

Who loves genuinely in a relationship that leads marriage? what are the signs...and after marriage does that same person still display such love...
What are the signs they he or she still shows that love.

According to people who were interviewed,most of them said its the man who shows genuine love,that when a man loves he loves unconditionally but the women  check the credit score...(if he still has money)? That most cases the women are gold diggers....when a man is financially challenged he loses respect from his other partner....

 Really?
Please feel free to xpressurself on this matter

What is the different between making love and having sex?

Take a listening at amazed at the response ...... A lady said … why would I call my man special...that God made everyone special, that if he was special he would provide her   all that she needs without her asking...that he is just a wonderful person.......... While a man is on the opinion that his wife is a wonderful person.... that wonderful is high rated than telling a woman that she is special... REALLY?

One of the ladies said that women most times have sex with their husbands because most times they are not in the mood.........
Hmmmm, is this true?

CASH is KING.....Vivien Nwandu

Cash is king! really? Don't get me wrong, being rich is great,infact .....in Davivdo's voice ' love is sweet,........when money enter love is sweeter'.....indeed it's so.......But can you honestly tell me that CASH is King?.....what happens when you have all the money in the world and you are all alone? With all your money you are not living healthy life....just because of mispriorities ............I am not an expert on these issues but I can only give little suggestions...... You need to spend quality time with your loved ones...your children,your spouse....have an indoor game,crack jokes,create fun......for your spouse write a sweet note leave it where she can see it.....switch off your phone for at least an hour or two when you are with her.....women surprise your man with a gift he loves...it might just be a simple little gift he cherishes...... Create the habit of regular exercise......it does soothe the body and makes you more productive at your work place.

What do you do when you have a wardrobe malfunction during a beauty pageant.

Yes! ladies this a true life story...a lady sent me a video of her story with her ripped beautiful outfit in a beauty pageant, a malicious act done by her fellow contestant who saw her as a threat to the competition, she ended up quitting. For the sake of privacy the real identity will not be mentioned. Today have decided to xpress myself with my rumpled and slightly torned evening dress to demonstrate to you that you can still pull it off.... to show you that when life gives you a lemon ,you can make a lemonade out of it....... The same people you think will criticize you will see the ...elegance,the class, the poise and confidence in you. Do you want to be the next Agbani Darego? then common and xpressurself.

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I found the one! love is sweet o!

Consistency is key Common now and xpressurself with me.

Nobody is ugly! it's all about packaging! stop this cyberbully- Vivien Nwandu

Yes! I said it,nobody is ugly....you are beautiful!Do't be bullied...stop this cyberbully

Nobody is ugly as far as I am concerned,it's all about branding(packaging)Even those that have flaws win beauty pageant. It's all about confidence, Stop envying those you see on social media....see some of the tricks they apply. You too can Xpressurself and look just as gorgeous as they are.

Men stop comparing! a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush -Vivien Nwandu

Men are easier to please than women….(quote)..Fair enough. But you men need to cherish what you have…remember that saying a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush! In my last post I talked about what value is a woman adding in her partner’s life… Today I am asking the men apart from providing finances, what other ways can you make your partner see you as ‘one in a million’ Remember money cannot buy love……(you don’t want to be the type who just provide money and your partner ‘still’ cheats on you….

Ok its time for us to xpress ourselves on some of the issues men forget most times…

I will focus more on
1.Touch
2.Communication
3.Affirmation
4.Gift
5.Service
 I only used tiny weening illustrations in this video. Please men if your woman adds weight and you do not like it, don’t call her ‘fat’, don’t avoid making love to her…and verbally saying until you lose weight you can’t get the best of me in the bedroom….it’s a no!no!

The words you use on spouse is very important, it can make or break a relationship, we women live by words and memories which makes up actions. Men try to imagine yourself as a wife or girlfriend for one day….(you see my point…it ain’t easy

Women try to imagine yourself as a husband or boyfriend for one day (you see my point..it aint easy. Stop comparing your woman with those women you see on Instagram...or social media..most cases the photos are photoshopped or airbrushed..have you seen these women without make up?

Do know some of them wear magic waist bands... Woman that man you are comparing with your man because he has a posh car..latest SUV..do you know if he used his last dime to purchase it...do you know his source of income? For more scope follow me on my Ig:

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What value are you adding to your man as a wife or girlfriend

To all my beautiful ladies it’s time for us to Xpress ourselves on this serious issue about what value we are adding to the men in our lives…..what value are you adding to your man or boyfriend or your partner….. In Africa it is the duty of a man to provide for his family or for his partner. To those dating it is the guy that provides for his girl………. Even the bible says it’s a man's duty to provide for the home…..but remember as a woman its your duty to support him. I was prompted to xpress this as a result of the loads of email I got from some men on how they have suffered in the hands of their women in so many instances, I am going to focus on just these crucial points for now 1. An Emotional abuse 2. Sex deprivation 3. Lack of Appreciation It is not that the men do not have their own issues …O yes! they do and we will be tackling that in our next video…….Men you guys cannot do without us..ooooo and they are fully aware of it. Women are strong o! it is really not easy being a woman but we love it…right ladies……........lol Common now and Xpressurself………