Thursday 17 May 2012

Question of the day


Why do some men insist on pregnancy before marriage? Having children is it the essence of marriage?


7 comments:

Shaahu said...

Interesting question, some culture see pregnating a woman bf marriage as tabooo

Oluwa said...

We men want to be sure,she's fertile, bf i married wife she was 3mths pregnant,didnt want to take chances

Mayon said...

Most women have done abortion so te their womb have been damaged so a man needs to be sure....and marrige without a child is useless in african culture

Maria said...

All ds men are ranting abt impregnanting a woman bf d alter...God 4bid what if d child they had dies after a yr of their marriage, what happens then and its taking yrs yet no child again.....men men...its God that makes things perfect

Selense said...

This na JAMB question ah....marriage,child,love

Faronbi said...

This is a serious concern really,a couple i know have broken up over this issue,they were married for 7yrs and no issue, man didnt mind bc he loved his wife and they were happy, he believed God they have travelled to india canada and the report that they were both healthy to bear kids but pressure from mother and other relatives to have grandchildren caused their separation, so marriage in Africa is bearing of kids in my view, so i dont blame men who see that the woman they want to take as wife is pregnant for them bf d alter

Anonymous said...

i believe in marriage,i prefer to wait so 2 impregnate a woman bf marriage is not proper,its not gd.chidren is part of marriage d essence of marriage is 4 a woman& a man to bc one. d joy of marriage is children it makes one feel fulfilled in life