I had an affair with my fiancée’s mother, should I tell ?

This was the email I received this evening for privacy I omitted the names,

“ I am so confused, I met my fiancée through my sister –in-law three years ago, who happens to be a senior colleague to her. When we met she had just relocated from the states, six months of knowing each other we found out that we had so much in common, we started dating, it was so bad to the extent that if we didn’t see each other in a day it affected our moods. Once my friends can’t reach me on the phone, they certainly know where to find me -her home.

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A year after we had decided to take it to the next level, we both travelled to the states to visit her family, her parents were separated though both still live in the states but different location. She is the only child. The very first day I met her mom, she was very nice to me and I felt right at home with her.

To cut the story short, we got back after our two weeks with them and letting them know our intention of getting married, her mom landed a month later, she stayed for two months, during her visit she made advances at me, at first I thought she was putting me to a test( she’s in her late 40s,but damn! She’s fine).

When it dawned on me that she meant it I tried my best as a man to let her see reasons, that if not for daughter, I would have dated her, but all that to her was bullshit……..somehow one thing led to another and we had sex just one time, we talked about it at length that we will get out of each others way and not repeat this atrocity ever again which we both vowed to keep.

 As our wedding gets closer, the more I think of the sex I had with her mom, it’s so bad that when I am making love to my fiancée all I’m thinking of her mom. Please advise me, I truly love my fiancée and I want her to be the mother of my children, should I tell my fiancée? Our wedding is six months away.

A Baby born with Rosary

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Investigation by Sunday Sun revealed that the boy was delivered on Tuesday at Rotoluwa Maternity Home along Aiyepe Road at about 11.45pm. Mrs. Gbemisola Hamsat, a 35-year-old mother of five, was said to have been delivered of the baby and the rosary.

 Expectedly, the strange delivery has turned their 2, Odujoko Street, off Prison Road, residence into a Mecca of sorts as people thronged the area to confirm the tale. The Matron of the Maternity Home, Mrs. Sarah Olurotimi Oloyede, a traditional birth attendant, confirmed that she took the delivery of the somewhat strange child.

 Oloyede’s words: “I heard a sound of something dropping into the bed pan before the placenta came out. “It sounded as if it was an iron or something with weight that dropped on it and when I checked it closely, I saw a rosary covered with thick blood.” Mrs Oloyede said that when she took the rosary by the ‘tail’ to examine it properly, all the clotted blood on it fell off, leaving the shinning rosary. A Christian, Oloyede said that she immediately invited her husband and some Muslim clerics in the area to come and behold the strange birth by her Christian patient.

 According to her, the shout of “Allahu Akbar” (God is Great) rented the air as hundreds of people trooped in to behold what happened. According to her, the rosary was not around the neck of the boy when he was delivered by her mother. She explained that the birth of the boy was miraculous and mysterious because a patient who was on the hospital bed for over four days and was unable to walk and eat, immediately got up and walked, demanding for food, which she ate on hearing the cry of the new baby.

Oloyede said the boy held on to the rosary and did not allow anyone to remove it from him despite the fact that he was yet to open his eyes. The baby’s mother said she is a Christian while her husband is a Muslim and expressed surprise at the development. Father of the baby, 45-year-old Mr. Idris Hamsat, said the wonderful delivery of his son helped to confirm his faith in Allah, adding: “Allah is indeed righteous and good.” Chief Imam of Remoland, Alhaji Anofi Adeyemi Allinson, who doubles as the Ogun State President of League of Imams and Alphas, likened the wonder birth to the visit of Prophet Musa to Medina where Allah sent his light to herald his visit. Allinson said: “Almighty Allah is sending us signals and message, which we must all understand. “First, it was about a baby born with a miniature of the Holy Quran and now a baby boy with Tesbeu.”

 The Divisional Police Officer (DPO) for Sagamu Area, Mr. Wale Lawal, was said to have led his officers and men to behold the mystery baby while prominent indigenes ofRemo town were said to have also visited the hospital. In his reaction, the Chief Medical Director of Ogun State General Hospital, Ijebu Ode, Dr. Wellington Ogunsanya, said there was no biological link of the story with the normal conception and baby delivery by a woman.

 According to Ogunsanya: “Such claim could only be possible with the help of a third party who might have implanted the rosary into the woman while she was unaware.” He said that such claims might be due to some women who inserted Intra-Uterine Device (IUD) through their vaginas into the uterus, adding that this may not necessarily disturb the growth of the baby. Dr. Ogunsanya noted that in such cases, it was possible for the baby, during delivery, to hold on to or bring such an object out of the woman. The CMD said that the case of a boy and a rosary being born by a woman had no correlation medically.

 Culled From Sunday Sun

Beauty, Brains and ageing -Nike Oshinowo's Interview

Nigerian businesswoman,socialite,entrepreneur and pageant director, Nike Oshinowo-Soleye,her interview today she had with AIT(Nigerian Independent Television),that the best way to look fabulous at 40years and beyond is that she gets 8-9hours of sleep, having water as her best friend, and letting the face breath(ie avoid heavy make- up) and avoid wearing weave-on to the waist.

But this is what has made waves this few days:

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SHE SAID;“Anytime I enter a church people are always quick to notice me and some may not even concentrate on the service anymore as I always become the center of attraction in such cases. And this also distracts me. Therefore I have preferred to stay at home and worship God, rather than to keep causing unnecessary distractions in church.” - Nike Oshinowo

Bimbo Akintola-“Having children outside marriage, there is nothing bad in that”

“I am stating clearly now that I am not botherd about my marital status. I know all fingers are not equal so I am not disturbed when they talk about marriage. If I had wanted to marry fifteen years ago, I would have done that. In the area of raising children, I have several children under my care though they are not my biological children. They are the children I am helping. Some of them are married with children so, I am a grandmother now. I know marriage is a bigger task. You cannot compare  it to the boyfriend stuff where you can pack your things and  go if you are provoked In marriage, you are going nowhere. It is for better, for worse. I strongly disagree with this idea of an ideal man. There is nothing like that. As far as you’re given attention by the man, the age is insignificant. There is no particular man that is ideal. Choose the things you like about the man and you work from there. Before you know it, things will start working good from there. In marriage, you will continue to have problems until you understand yourselves well. And it takes a lot of time for both parties to understand themselves. So, if you are looking for a perfect man, you will die old ,wretched and wrinkled”.
“I didn’t see any bad thing with that. There are some women who are ready to marry but they have not seen the right man. Some of these people are above 5oyears and they still have not gotten married”

YOUWIN! 2 For Women

YOUWIN! 2 is an innovative business plan competition for talented youth entrepreneurs, young females between the ages of 18 and 45.

President Goodluck Jonathan will on Monday, September 3, launch the second edition of Youth Enterprise with Innovation (YOUWIN) exclusively for women.

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In a statement from the Ministry of Finance, the objective is to create thousands of jobs by helping winners to strengthen and expand existing businesses as well as turn innovative ideas into solid businesses. The first year of the competition which ended recently produced 1,200 winners from different parts of the country following a rigorous contest.

Rewards for winners included prizes and grants of up to N10m, technical support including state-of-the-art websites and strategic guidance by experienced mentors. The launch of YOUWIN! 2 will take place at the Banquet Hall of the State House. Expected at the event are youth groups, reputable women entrepreneurs, ministers and other top government officials.

Fuel tanker explodes in Abuja, kills two

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A fuel tanker has exploded in Maje town, on the outskirts of Abuja, killing two people and destroying 29 buildings, the National Emergency Management Agency, NEMA, has said. NEMA spokesperson, Mr. Yushau Shuaibu, in a statement said the tanker fell and exploded, killing the two victims and injuring many others. Two of the 29 buildings destroyed were residential apartments while 27 were shops. Mr. Shuaibu said those injured had been taken to hospital.

The hidden raps of cocaine in roasted chicken

 
Officials of the National Drug Law Enforcement Agency have arrested an auto technician, Vincent Chinweuwa, for allegedly hiding 2.655kg of cocaine hidden inside roasted chicken.
The seizure was made at the Murtala Mohammed International Airport, Lagos during the inward clearance of passengers on a Turkish Airline flight from Sao Paulo, Brazil on Friday.
The agency said street value of the seized drug was about N24m.

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The NDLEA Airport Commander, Mr. Hamza Umar, described the seizure as “remarkable.” “It is a remarkable seizure because no one would have imagined cocaine worth several millions inside roasted chicken,” Hamza stated. When he was interrogated, the suspect reportedly said he thought that the drug would not be detected.

“It took me three days to pack the cocaine inside the roasted chicken. I was confident that the drug will not be detected. I have been living in Brazil since 2006. Life has been stressful because I cannot even visit my wife in Nigeria due to lack of money. I wanted some money to start any business of my choice back home. Unfortunately, I was disappointed upon arrival in Lagos,” he said. Meanwhile, the Chairman of the National Drug Law Enforcement Agency, Ahmadu Giade, said spectacular seizures of this nature would help discourage others from the criminal drug trade.
“The suspect thought his mode of drug concealment was perfect but we proved him wrong. Several drugs cleverly hidden by drug barons have been discovered and we shall continue to detect drugs regardless of the mode of concealment,” Giade assured.

The suspect who hails from Imo State will soon be charged to court.

 The Punch