From the emails xpressurselfshow has received these couple of days….majority of the people say:
Money is the least of the reasons why eligible men are not
concerned to get married…. Really ! Seriously?
One would have thought once a man reaches a certain age and
he has a good job that pays really well, would make moves to get the woman of
his dream and get settled, but apparently in our society today, it seems to be
the opposite, that’s the time you see a man flaunting with so many different
ladies, if out all he wants to make an effort in this area, he proposes to the
girl for a year or more without actually getting down to the actual thing…..MARRIAGE!....the
full ceremony!
Feel free to xpressurself on this matter.
15 comments:
The number one reason is that they are scared of being TRAPPED!!! Secondly its our
Nigerian mentality to want to make enuf money before entering into marriage...
Vivien thank you my dear,God bless you, i wish my son will read this, his my first son 35years he has a good job, doing so well, my husband is late, i have cried out to God to answer my prayer,he doesnt even think in this direction of getting married,out all out and all...i dont know how else to make him settle down, today he is either with justina the next day is ijeoma eh. Every sunday when i go to church, half of my prayer is on him, i need grand children befiore i die, im 69year....this getting out of hand bc his younger ones i watching, i dont them to follow his foot step.
Most of our guys are not men, they boyz that why they freak out when it comes to settling down. The guy i dated for two years was ready to settle down i had to end the r/ship really there was no point continuing it, even though he was committed.
Finding a good woman these days is hard,most of them are after our pockets that why
We women are the cause, we lay so cheap bc the man works in a good place so what, we 4get to check his charater, we see me and catch several times with other girls and we simply ignoring ...dragging over,of course is bound to flaunt round and play as he likes
This is a serious case, honestly, iam 3oyears a virgin waiting for the right man,but in all my years of waiting most of the men tell me i am deceiving myself no man would settle for a virgin.....im already regretting for waiting in vain
Seriously our men do not respect women, i prefer to men outside our country,im married to Ghanaian not because i despise our men but for reason only they do not have regards for us and my younger are following my foot steps.
Its everywhere in the world,the typical one is the entertainers, hollywood that most people have role models and you some fetting divorce within 72days after marriage, which man wont be scared to be married, knowing fully well that these are influential people, their fans look up to them.
They are scared of committing bc of the pretence the women put out there.
Why get married as add to the stress,meanwhileu can get sex when u want to and have kids ....lol! men,men, i guess that's what most of them think when they imargin getting married
I must confess im a guy, the only child of my parents...the thought of being with one woman for the rest of my life is scaring,times of changed unlike when my parents got married.....if u ask majority of men , 88% will tell u the same thing....as u go socialising or travel you find beautiful and sexy women all over...damn! it aint easy to choose.
That's what our women deserves, they are too inconsistent,too materialistic and selfish,every Nigerian woman wants a ready made man but they are not willing to suffer with the man.
The essence of marriage is just to have kids outside that no Nigerian woman is worth the stress.
Why did you end the r/ship?
Its fear of the unknown.
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