Monday 26 March 2012

Men are not born players?…..Nollywood/Hollywood (One of Most difficult professions to sustain a lasting man/ woman relationship.

As a boy, he listened to his mother’s advice which were “treat your woman right,respect her, don’t hurt her,your father might be a polygamist but you shouldn’t, love and cherish her and she will love forever.
 
With that advice at back of the man’s mind…..He gets into the university or gets to the age of having a woman in his life, he heeds to his mother’s advice with such innocence…. he believes this is woman that will be his confidant, best friend, wife and the  mother  to his children. Then one day to his shock& horror his first love/lady breaks his heart…., then he moves on to the next lady…Hoping she will be different from the first……Unfortunately history repeats itself…in his mind he still believes in his mother’s advice and went for the 3rd relationship yet another sad news, the lady breaks his heart, then and then his mother’s advice became questionable to him and he refused to be confused. From that moment became a different journey for him with women….calling it the last straw…..
To him all women are the same,”I will have two girlfriends/women at the same time, if one breaks my heart, I have the other one to fall back on, and at no point in my life will I have just one girlfriend in my life” When it’s time for him to get married he tells himself “I’ll simply settle down with 'THE ONE' I think meets my personal preferences”
Hmmmm!  Could his personal preference mean “NO WAHALA”?

Is this the reason why we have marriages last for only 6hours (Rudolph Valentino& Jean Acker marriage. 72days (Kim Kardashian and Christ Humphrey marriage).

 2face Idibia has Six children from different women& now he is about to settle down with‘THE ONE’ that has met his personal preference
(ok you can over look that question).
Is that the reason why……….. (As stated above)…Nigerian women ranked as the most unfaithful women in the world?

Difficult to answer right?.....personally,I think the statistics above is not true or do you think othewise?


20 comments:

Kene said...

Men were not born players,its true that women made them players,womenare always double dating and being unfaithful

Anonymous said...

I think the mean are irresponsible

Anonymous said...

I think the environmental constrain,man most likely to die bf women bibically were fell off the grace from Eden,legacy issue and ambition,he stumbles along d way.both nature and artificial influences him to keep his seed alive...so that why think men play, that statistics i think is wrong

Anonymous said...

Men are born players, its in their DNA

Gozie said...

3billion women and 1.2men in the world...so women shld lick their feet, or else she shld be kept packing....Men are not born player but (circumstances) women

Anonymous said...

I am a man and i have never slept with another woman ever since i got married to my wife which 15year ago bc i took my time to find everything im looking for in a woman in my lifemy wife which full package...and we quarrel like a friend and we make sure the quarrel must be addressed bf we go to bed and no third party must be involved, while the quarrel is going on non of us deny each other of sex if she or I don't feellike having sex, its not an option, it has to take place which majority of the time help in solving our problems....i guess this is what makes me not to look else where. By the way,i am a Nigerian,from Ajah,Lagos state.

Ayodele said...

That unfaithfulness is the yoruba women, they sleep around alot whether they are married or not.I am from yoruba so i now what iam saying,from experience

Abu said...

of course men players as soon as they start seeing their eyes

Anonymous said...

I a man we are players, that's why my guiding my two daughters as if there no 2morrow

Anonymous said...

With all d beautiful women we cant settle with one

Anonymous said...

Women have heart, the men are heartless

Anonymous said...

The hearts of men is desperatley wicked it is only d fear of God that makes a man not to play, naturally, we men are player i must confess

Anonymous said...

Right from our fore fathers, they married many wives how did that happen,playing,so it natural

Anonymous said...

Most times is the women that make us play...a nagging woman

Anonymous said...

I think its both ways, both women and men are players ds these...i know of a case where the woman found out that man has been keeping secrets since then her own adultery ...is like a curse...she sleeps around like it was her last day on earth

charls said...

Well said Xpressurselfshow,men were not born players......events turned them that way

Chris Agudah said...

I love ur blog!!!!

Anonymous said...

The men are players right from Adam

Anonymous said...

Nigerian women are faithful,give a woman true love,she give you Subservience/loyalty

Anonymous said...

That statistic might be correct...in owambes and face me i face houses...alot do happen....ah women