The man shows genuine love in a relationship,women dont respect their partner if he has financial challenges

Who loves genuinely in a relationship that leads marriage? what are the signs...and after marriage does that same person still display such love...
What are the signs they he or she still shows that love.

According to people who were interviewed,most of them said its the man who shows genuine love,that when a man loves he loves unconditionally but the women  check the credit score...(if he still has money)? That most cases the women are gold diggers....when a man is financially challenged he loses respect from his other partner....

 Really?
Please feel free to xpressurself on this matter

What is the different between making love and having sex?

Take a listening at amazed at the response ...... A lady said … why would I call my man special...that God made everyone special, that if he was special he would provide her   all that she needs without her asking...that he is just a wonderful person.......... While a man is on the opinion that his wife is a wonderful person.... that wonderful is high rated than telling a woman that she is special... REALLY?

One of the ladies said that women most times have sex with their husbands because most times they are not in the mood.........
Hmmmm, is this true?

CASH is KING.....Vivien Nwandu

Cash is king! really? Don't get me wrong, being rich is great,infact .....in Davivdo's voice ' love is sweet,........when money enter love is sweeter'.....indeed it's so.......But can you honestly tell me that CASH is King?.....what happens when you have all the money in the world and you are all alone? With all your money you are not living healthy life....just because of mispriorities ............I am not an expert on these issues but I can only give little suggestions...... You need to spend quality time with your loved ones...your children,your spouse....have an indoor game,crack jokes,create fun......for your spouse write a sweet note leave it where she can see it.....switch off your phone for at least an hour or two when you are with her.....women surprise your man with a gift he loves...it might just be a simple little gift he cherishes...... Create the habit of regular exercise......it does soothe the body and makes you more productive at your work place.

What do you do when you have a wardrobe malfunction during a beauty pageant.

Yes! ladies this a true life story...a lady sent me a video of her story with her ripped beautiful outfit in a beauty pageant, a malicious act done by her fellow contestant who saw her as a threat to the competition, she ended up quitting. For the sake of privacy the real identity will not be mentioned. Today have decided to xpress myself with my rumpled and slightly torned evening dress to demonstrate to you that you can still pull it off.... to show you that when life gives you a lemon ,you can make a lemonade out of it....... The same people you think will criticize you will see the ...elegance,the class, the poise and confidence in you. Do you want to be the next Agbani Darego? then common and xpressurself.

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I found the one! love is sweet o!

Consistency is key Common now and xpressurself with me.

Nobody is ugly! it's all about packaging! stop this cyberbully- Vivien Nwandu

Yes! I said it,nobody is ugly....you are beautiful!Do't be bullied...stop this cyberbully

Nobody is ugly as far as I am concerned,it's all about branding(packaging)Even those that have flaws win beauty pageant. It's all about confidence, Stop envying those you see on social media....see some of the tricks they apply. You too can Xpressurself and look just as gorgeous as they are.

Men stop comparing! a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush -Vivien Nwandu

Men are easier to please than women….(quote)..Fair enough. But you men need to cherish what you have…remember that saying a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush! In my last post I talked about what value is a woman adding in her partner’s life… Today I am asking the men apart from providing finances, what other ways can you make your partner see you as ‘one in a million’ Remember money cannot buy love……(you don’t want to be the type who just provide money and your partner ‘still’ cheats on you….

Ok its time for us to xpress ourselves on some of the issues men forget most times…

I will focus more on
1.Touch
2.Communication
3.Affirmation
4.Gift
5.Service
 I only used tiny weening illustrations in this video. Please men if your woman adds weight and you do not like it, don’t call her ‘fat’, don’t avoid making love to her…and verbally saying until you lose weight you can’t get the best of me in the bedroom….it’s a no!no!

The words you use on spouse is very important, it can make or break a relationship, we women live by words and memories which makes up actions. Men try to imagine yourself as a wife or girlfriend for one day….(you see my point…it ain’t easy

Women try to imagine yourself as a husband or boyfriend for one day (you see my point..it aint easy. Stop comparing your woman with those women you see on Instagram...or social media..most cases the photos are photoshopped or airbrushed..have you seen these women without make up?

Do know some of them wear magic waist bands... Woman that man you are comparing with your man because he has a posh car..latest SUV..do you know if he used his last dime to purchase it...do you know his source of income? For more scope follow me on my Ig:

@vivienaliam,facebook:xpressurselfshow and twitter:Xpressurself_tv.....

What value are you adding to your man as a wife or girlfriend

To all my beautiful ladies it’s time for us to Xpress ourselves on this serious issue about what value we are adding to the men in our lives…..what value are you adding to your man or boyfriend or your partner….. In Africa it is the duty of a man to provide for his family or for his partner. To those dating it is the guy that provides for his girl………. Even the bible says it’s a man's duty to provide for the home…..but remember as a woman its your duty to support him. I was prompted to xpress this as a result of the loads of email I got from some men on how they have suffered in the hands of their women in so many instances, I am going to focus on just these crucial points for now 1. An Emotional abuse 2. Sex deprivation 3. Lack of Appreciation It is not that the men do not have their own issues …O yes! they do and we will be tackling that in our next video…….Men you guys cannot do without us..ooooo and they are fully aware of it. Women are strong o! it is really not easy being a woman but we love it…right ladies……........lol Common now and Xpressurself………

Falling inlove with your grey -Vivien Nwandu

Grey hair is not determinant of your age! so common now and xpress ur natural hair!

Love wisely -Vivien Nwandu

To all my beautiful ladies who work so hard .......

Follow me on my IG handle:VivienNwandu

Healthy,bouncy natural hair

Its all my natural hair, who says you hair cannot be healthy and bouncy.......
Common now and xpressur natural hair

Vivien Nwandu@ Lagos Business School for Africa Opportunity Realization in Africa -2018

Vivien Nwandu short interview with Ebony Tv OAP Marcy Dolapo oni Sijuwade@ the Africa Business Conference.....also Maiatafo and Omoyemiakerele share their experiences on Fashion. Click here to watch video

at the Lagos Business Nigeria Mrs  Obiageli Ezekwesili asked a very important question in her speech...is it better to build or rebuild Nigeria?

Laviv Kitchen has got your back any day any time

All kinds of food for breakfast, lunch,dinner, even for brunch,Laviv Kitchen has your back.

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For weddings,parties,Birthday order with these number:09074519298, Laviv Kitchen has  got your back

who really does this after exercise -Vivien Nwandu

 

Nawo! eh what kind of  indiscipline is this???? who licks a bowl of ice cream immediately after exercising......lol! please dont try this o! click here and here

Make yourself a priority -Vivien Nwandu

Dont give up,keep striving ....sometimes you feel like it's not working when you've given it all your shots but hey maybe what you need is a different strategy or being around positive people the last thing you need is to resent yourself... even if it means being calm at that moment so you can think properly or do things you love......click here  and here

Become a super star over night just like Oyinda for voicing out on my show

Pretty Oyinda who is not afraid or holds any apology for expressing herself on my show got invited to appear on Pulse Tv, after they watched her my on youtube.......

This weekend an argument arose about a certain lady who has never traveled abroad but she exudes class and royal background...she gets  backlash for being herself...lets start by asking who is considered classy and trashy?
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Do you want to be a star?Then you are on the right platform,you never know who is reading your comment on our youtube channel, so common now and xpressurself on the youtube channel. Click here:
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Prostitution, Money Exchange and Feminism -Vivien Nwandu

Oyinda says some men call their women(girlfriends) prostitute when they ask for money….she says it is not right and such women should get out of the relationship if the men are not ready to take care of them… or not supporting their businesses, how can they be having free sex just like that?????

She is of the opinion that a prostitute is an enterprise and those who engage in it know that it’s business for them and they are not ashamed of admitting to it,they ask for money before or after the sex, that it is of two different world, your girlfriend is your responsibility and a prostitute is a whore no mistaken about that.
In a relationship! Is a stingy man an irresponsible person? Hear what my guests said they should do to that man.

If you are dating a rich man and he says he will not give you money until you marry him, will you continue to date him????

If you work in a highly paid organization say you are earning 1million  naira should your spouse or boyfriend continue to give you monthly allowance?

So much heat on this conversation please leave your opinion o our comment section on the youtube and  our Instagram handle

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Twitter: Xpressurself_tv

Banky was caught in the middle when he says the right thing to do is to abstain from sex before marriage….

Banky went on to say some women are feminist but they do not want to take the position of that. Asking for equal right of that of a man, then they should be willing to pay bills and take the responsibilities men do.

Love, Sex and Money -Vivien Nwandu

Mike argues money brings love in a relationship and LOVE does not exist if there is no MONEY that if Victoria meets a man who will go to the moon for her.....since she says she doesn't believe in money in a relationship! but LOVE! she says she can date a man without money! CAN SHE DATE A HARD WORKING MAN who lives in Okokomaiko?........ See her reaction when she was asked since she is inlove can she get a flower as gift. Really? are Nigerian men mostly gold diggers ???? it is a function of the the recent reccession or its been there for years Do you want to get the scoop? on how you can add value to your relationship?...then come on and xpressurself......right on xpressurself show....we really want your honest advice on our comment section...you never know whose life you will be touching from your heart felt comment. Do leave your comment on our Instagram handle:@vivienaliam Twitter handle: @xpressurself_tv Facebook: xpressurselfshow.blogspot.com

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Mike argues money brings love in a relationship and LOVE does not exist if there is no MONEY that if Victoria meets a man who will go to the moon for her.....since she says she doesn't believe in money in a relationship! but LOVE! she says she can date a man without money! CAN SHE DATE A HARD WORKING MAN who lives in Okokomaiko?........ See her reaction when she was asked since she is inlove can she get a flower as gift. Really? are Nigerian men mostly gold diggers ???? it is a function of the the recent reccession or its been there for years Do you want to get the scoop? on how you can add value to your relationship?...then come on and xpressurself......right on xpressurself show....we really want your honest advice on our comment section...you never know whose life you will be touching from your heart felt comment. Do leave your comment on our Instagram handle:@vivienaliam Twitter handle: @xpressurself_tv Facebook: xpressurselfshow.blogspot.com

Giving back on my birthday.......And feels really good

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Monkey pox outbreak

6more states have found of monkey pox after suspect of victims was found in Bayelsa state inSept. 22, Rivers, Ekiti, Akwa Ibom, Lagos, Ogun and Cross Rivers.