So much has been talked about this park so
I decided to take a whole day to go round it, I met so many people from all
over the world…and each has one or two things to talk about it…. take a listen.
Personal I enjoyed the serenity.
If you have an experience you want to share
with us on your journey to any place in the world, please do feel free to share
with us here on this platform.
The whole idea is that no knowledge is a waste and nobody knows it all no matter how exposed you are or how well traveled you are
Before you judge me,I will be uploading the video my personal trip to my home town soonest..... Comment will take a bit of time for approval.
Take a listen and hear what some of the Nigerians have to say concerning marrying other races when they come abroad…they take pleasure in marry a foreigner because they feel they at peace and safer….
Ken says the Nigerian women change,the become westernized and live a culture less character,they forget the Nigerian culture,they don't respect their husbands,treat them like trash...so they rather face the American ladies. He says that the American Ladies respect them more than the Nigerian ladies.
Really? Do you agree Comments will take a bit of time for approval
Here at Time Square I am asking why do Nigerians come abroad and do not marry their fellow Nigerians instead they prefer to marry somebody else from another country or continent.
A Lady was asked if she won a lottery with millions of dollars will she stay back here in the states and forget her own country and face a new luxurious life style or will she reject the money and go back to her own poor laid back country????....take a listen at her response
Also a gentle man was asked if he can marry someone much older than him,and what is the age age difference tolerance.......he says a 60 year old is lady he can marry even though he is just years.....though this guy is an American citizen, he was also asked if he can date his brothers's ex.....he says yes and he can still marry her if the chemistry is right. Really?
These videos will be shared in the next few days.Before then lets hear your opinion on these topics. Comments will take a bit of time for approval.
Who loves genuinely in a relationship that leads marriage? what are the signs...and after marriage does that same person still display such love...
What are the signs they he or she still shows that love.
According to people who were interviewed,most of them said its the man who shows genuine love,that when a man loves he loves unconditionally but the women check the credit score...(if he still has money)? That most cases the women are gold diggers....when a man is financially challenged he loses respect from his other partner....
Really?
Please feel free to xpressurself on this matter
Take a listening
at amazed at the response ...... A lady said … why would I call my man
special...that God made everyone special, that if he was special he would
provide her all that she needs without her asking...that
he is just a wonderful person.......... While a man is on the opinion that his
wife is a wonderful person.... that wonderful is high rated than telling a
woman that she is special... REALLY?
One of the ladies said that women most times have sex with their husbands because most times they are not in the mood.........
Hmmmm, is this true?
Cash is king!
really? Don't get me wrong, being rich is great,infact .....in Davivdo's voice '
love is sweet,........when money enter love is sweeter'.....indeed it's
so.......But can you honestly tell me that CASH is King?.....what happens when
you have all the money in the world and you are all alone? With all your money
you are not living healthy life....just because of mispriorities ............I
am not an expert on these issues but I can only give little suggestions......
You need to spend quality time with your loved ones...your children,your
spouse....have an indoor game,crack jokes,create fun......for your spouse write
a sweet note leave it where she can see it.....switch off your phone for at
least an hour or two when you are with her.....women surprise your man with a
gift he loves...it might just be a simple little gift he cherishes...... Create
the habit of regular exercise......it does soothe the body and makes you more
productive at your work place.
Yes! ladies this a true life story...a lady sent me a video of her story with her ripped beautiful outfit in a beauty pageant, a malicious act done by her fellow contestant who saw her as a threat to the competition, she ended up quitting.
For the sake of privacy the real identity will not be mentioned.
Today have decided to xpress myself with my rumpled and slightly torned evening dress to demonstrate to you that you can still pull it off.... to show you that when life gives you a lemon ,you can make a lemonade out of it.......
The same people you think will criticize you will see the ...elegance,the class, the poise and confidence in you.
Do you want to be the next Agbani Darego? then common and xpressurself. Share,comment and like my youtube videos ...Xpressurselfhow Follow me on twiiter...xpressurself_tv Facebook.....................xpressurselfshow Instagram....................@VivienNwandu
Yes! I said it,nobody is ugly....you are beautiful!Do't be bullied...stop this cyberbully
Nobody is ugly as far as I am concerned,it's all about branding(packaging)Even those that have flaws win beauty pageant. It's all about confidence, Stop envying those you see on social media....see some of the tricks they apply.
You too can Xpressurself and look just as gorgeous as they are.
Men are easier to please than women….(quote)..Fair enough. But you men need to cherish what you have…remember that saying a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush! In my last post I talked about what value is a woman adding in her partner’s life…
Today I am asking the men apart from providing finances, what other ways can you make your partner see you as ‘one in a million’ Remember money cannot buy love……(you don’t want to be the type who just provide money and your partner ‘still’ cheats on you….
Ok its time for us to xpress ourselves on some of the issues men forget most times…
I will focus more on
1.Touch
2.Communication
3.Affirmation
4.Gift
5.Service
I only used tiny weening illustrations in this video.
Please men if your woman adds weight and you do not like it, don’t call her ‘fat’, don’t avoid making love to her…and verbally saying until you lose weight you can’t get the best of me in the bedroom….it’s a no!no!
The words you use on spouse is very important, it can make or break a relationship, we women live by words and memories which makes up actions.
Men try to imagine yourself as a wife or girlfriend for one day….(you see my point…it ain’t easy
Women try to imagine yourself as a husband or boyfriend for one day (you see my point..it aint easy.
Stop comparing your woman with those women you see on Instagram...or social media..most cases the photos are photoshopped or airbrushed..have you seen these women without make up?
Do know some of them wear magic waist bands...
Woman that man you are comparing with your man because he has a posh car..latest SUV..do you know if he used his last dime to purchase it...do you know his source of income?
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@vivienaliam,facebook:xpressurselfshow and twitter:Xpressurself_tv.....
To all my beautiful ladies it’s time for us to Xpress ourselves on this serious issue about what value we are adding to the men in our lives…..what value are you adding to your man or boyfriend or your partner…..
In Africa it is the duty of a man to provide for his family or for his partner. To those dating it is the guy that provides for his girl……….
Even the bible says it’s a man's duty to provide for the home…..but remember as a woman its your duty to support him.
I was prompted to xpress this as a result of the loads of email I got from some men on how they have suffered in the hands of their women in so many instances, I am going to focus on just these crucial points for now
1. An Emotional abuse
2. Sex deprivation
3. Lack of Appreciation
It is not that the men do not have their own issues …O yes! they do and we will be tackling that in our next video…….Men you guys cannot do without us..ooooo and they are fully aware of it.
Women are strong o! it is really not easy being a woman but we love it…right ladies……........lol
Common now and Xpressurself………
Vivien Nwandu short interview with Ebony Tv OAP Marcy Dolapo oni Sijuwade@ the Africa Business Conference.....also Maiatafo and Omoyemiakerele share their experiences on Fashion. Click here to watch video
at the Lagos Business Nigeria Mrs Obiageli Ezekwesili asked a very important question in her speech...is it better to build or rebuild Nigeria?
Nawo! eh what kind of indiscipline is this???? who licks a bowl of ice cream immediately after exercising......lol! please dont try this o! click here and here
Dont give up,keep striving ....sometimes you feel like it's not working when you've given it all your shots but hey maybe what you need is a different strategy or being around positive people the last thing you need is to resent yourself... even if it means being calm at that moment so you can think properly or do things you love......click here and here
Pretty Oyinda who is not afraid or holds any apology for expressing herself on my show got invited to appear on Pulse Tv, after they watched her my on youtube.......
This weekend an argument arose about a certain lady who has never traveled abroad but she exudes class and royal background...she gets backlash for being herself...lets start by asking who is considered classy and trashy?
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Oyinda says some men call their women(girlfriends) prostitute
when they ask for money….she says it is not right and such women should get out
of the relationship if the men are not ready to take care of them… or not
supporting their businesses, how can they be having free sex just like
that?????
She is of the opinion that a prostitute is an enterprise and
those who engage in it know that it’s business for them and they are not
ashamed of admitting to it,they ask for money before or after the sex, that it
is of two different world, your girlfriend is your responsibility and a
prostitute is a whore no mistaken about that.
In a relationship! Is a stingy
man an irresponsible person? Hear what my guests said they should do to that man.
If you are dating a rich man and he says he will not give
you money until you marry him, will you continue to date him????
If you work in a highly paid organization say you are
earning 1million naira should your spouse or boyfriend continue to give you monthly
allowance?
So much heat on this conversation please leave your opinion
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Banky was caught in the middle when he says the right thing to do
is to abstain from sex before marriage….
Banky went on to say some women are feminist but they do not
want to take the position of that. Asking for equal right of that of a man, then
they should be willing to pay bills and take the responsibilities men do.
