Nobody is ugly! it's all about packaging! stop this cyberbully- Vivien Nwandu

Yes! I said it,nobody is ugly....you are beautiful!Do't be bullied...stop this cyberbully

Nobody is ugly as far as I am concerned,it's all about branding(packaging)Even those that have flaws win beauty pageant. It's all about confidence, Stop envying those you see on social media....see some of the tricks they apply. You too can Xpressurself and look just as gorgeous as they are.

Men stop comparing! a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush -Vivien Nwandu

Men are easier to please than women….(quote)..Fair enough. But you men need to cherish what you have…remember that saying a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush! In my last post I talked about what value is a woman adding in her partner’s life… Today I am asking the men apart from providing finances, what other ways can you make your partner see you as ‘one in a million’ Remember money cannot buy love……(you don’t want to be the type who just provide money and your partner ‘still’ cheats on you….

Ok its time for us to xpress ourselves on some of the issues men forget most times…

I will focus more on
1.Touch
2.Communication
3.Affirmation
4.Gift
5.Service
 I only used tiny weening illustrations in this video. Please men if your woman adds weight and you do not like it, don’t call her ‘fat’, don’t avoid making love to her…and verbally saying until you lose weight you can’t get the best of me in the bedroom….it’s a no!no!

The words you use on spouse is very important, it can make or break a relationship, we women live by words and memories which makes up actions. Men try to imagine yourself as a wife or girlfriend for one day….(you see my point…it ain’t easy

Women try to imagine yourself as a husband or boyfriend for one day (you see my point..it aint easy. Stop comparing your woman with those women you see on Instagram...or social media..most cases the photos are photoshopped or airbrushed..have you seen these women without make up?

Do know some of them wear magic waist bands... Woman that man you are comparing with your man because he has a posh car..latest SUV..do you know if he used his last dime to purchase it...do you know his source of income? For more scope follow me on my Ig:

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What value are you adding to your man as a wife or girlfriend

To all my beautiful ladies it’s time for us to Xpress ourselves on this serious issue about what value we are adding to the men in our lives…..what value are you adding to your man or boyfriend or your partner….. In Africa it is the duty of a man to provide for his family or for his partner. To those dating it is the guy that provides for his girl………. Even the bible says it’s a man's duty to provide for the home…..but remember as a woman its your duty to support him. I was prompted to xpress this as a result of the loads of email I got from some men on how they have suffered in the hands of their women in so many instances, I am going to focus on just these crucial points for now 1. An Emotional abuse 2. Sex deprivation 3. Lack of Appreciation It is not that the men do not have their own issues …O yes! they do and we will be tackling that in our next video…….Men you guys cannot do without us..ooooo and they are fully aware of it. Women are strong o! it is really not easy being a woman but we love it…right ladies……........lol Common now and Xpressurself………