I am in love with my husband’s brother

                                                        This I saw on facebook today
I’M having an affair with my husband’s brother. I am deeply in love with him but he says he doesn’t do feelings.
I am 39, married 10 years but I and my husband haven’t been getting on for ages. I’ve told him repeatedly there is nothing between us anymore and that I can’t stand him being anywhere near me.
He just shrugs his shoulders and walks away, or else we end up having a row and not talking for days.

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We went to his mum and dad’s golden wedding do a few months ago. His brother who was just back from working abroad came too. He is 32, had a deep tan and looked great. As soon as we started chatting there was a spark between us. We danced and laughed all evening while my husband sat in the corner talking to no one. I don’t think he was in the least bit jealous even when everyone was talking about us getting so up close and friendly.

We exchanged phone numbers at the end of the evening and the next morning I got a text saying, “Let’s meet.” I was so excited. We drove to a quiet spot and had sex and we’ve been having an affair ever since. Making love with him is magical and when we’re together I just feel so special. He is staying at his parent’s house while he’s doing some work in the area for six months. We meet whenever we can manage. Sometimes it’s during the day or occasionally he’ll take me to the cinema, and out for meals, but it’s the sex that is really special. I don’t ever want it to end and I know he can’t get enough of me either. Last week I told him I was falling for him big time.

He went really quiet and said he really likes me but it’s just a fling and he is never going to get into a serious relationship again. He asked me what I would do if he found someone else. I told him it would hurt like mad but I’d just have to accept it. He then told me he got so hurt by his ex he thought about ending his life.

I know he’s the brother I should be with but I don’t want to spoil things between us by putting him under pressure. I want him as a friend and lover.