when last did you take a stroll around the estate,when last did you have fun doing it urself????? Why don’t u give ur driver a day off anytime during the weekend, u and ur wife or that special person in ur life take time out to wash and wax the car and have great fun doing so........ she looking all hot and sexy in her bum shorts . WHY not, u could also spend time cooking that special meal 2gether (he might not know how to cook, but he could chop the onions/tomatoes),this allows for relax conversation,not only will u'll bond with her, u'll also burn off those fats after lovely meal and a hot passionate intimate moment with one another.
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Why not go fishing with her, u don’t necessarily have to catch a fish but that moment trying to bait a fish could be one of the most memorable time of ur life…….the laughter you share,the effort you both put into trying to catch the fish could go a long way in strengthening the bond you both share.These are totally doable,right? There are ton of ideas,the secret to enhancing your relationship has less to do with relationship talks and more to do with having a good time 2gther.Understanding your partner,say he likes games: watching or going to a game with him is a blast,he will appreciate the effort,take a shower 2gther,if she likes sweet word:leaving her love notes/text,will do the magic, every now and then exchange gifts,understand him or her body language does wonders...(trust us)....we can go on and on ...the real key is UNDERSTANDING EACH OTHER. In case you are wondering how about the kids,hey.....plan dropping them off for few hours with your mother or someone you know you trust and is reliable.....few hours won't hurt.
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Very Interesting and factful.
Hmmm.... A rather interesting topic which I will approach from a man’s perspective. I am afraid I have say that on average you have to be financially comfortable in Nigeria to have time for such. In most average families in Nigeria the pressures of life have taken over the ability to enjoy marriages or relationships. School fees, Rent, Chop moni. for the wife, the financial burden of running the home, funerals , birthdays, family palava, waking at odd hours to get to work(which is compounded by bad roads and a chaotic transport system) etc. have caused a lot of havoc. The average man's mindset in Nigeria is engraved with the word SURVIVAL. So he spends most his time thinking about where the next meal is coming from to keep the family afloat. Moreover couples often spend the weekend recovering from the rigours of the preceding week (If they both work) that to have fun is simply a luxury they cannot afford in some cases. Simply put the system in Nigeria (which of course is not a system) conspires against our marriages and special relationships. Not that I want to be totally negative but that is the life of the average couple in Nigeria. Nevertheless I still strongly feel that whatever the circumstances the importance of these relationships must be up-held at all times because when all is said and done your family will stand by you through thick and thin . So I agree that it is important that you spend quality time with that special person but whether the environment we live in is conducive for such is another matter.
Relationships, like most things in life, change, evolve. Depending on the personalities involved, they can be fulfilling or catalysts for stress. There would always be factors impacting a relationship such as priorities, responsibilities, finances, family and friends. However if both parties CHOOSE to work at the relationship, then there's the increased chance of the relationship surviving, but even then, no guarantees. But compromise is often painful...and selfless and very, very difficult...
I wish i can apply this in my marraige, the wahala in Nigeria especially in Anambra state,which is where we reside ever since my husband was transferred,i'm a civil servant worker so i get home early,but my hubby gets home earliest9pm,so most of the weekend he just sleeps and sleeps and occasionally play with the kids.I'll find away to make him read ds,maybe that will spur him
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