Tuesday 12 June 2012

Her husband has been sleeping on a duvet given to her by her ex boyfriend----Question of the day-what would you do differently

Giuliana and Bill reality TV show ,this is one my favourite reality TV shows, just want share this particular episode with you which led to question of the day....and it has raised a lot of different views with some of my friends espcially the the quys.........................
 
They have been married for almost five years but they both lived in two different cities in America, Los Angeles and Chicago because of work, they did see each other as often as they could. Five years of trying to have children finally the couple is expecting a child via gestational surrogate.....a recap
 Recently Bill the husband who lived in Chicago had to move to L.A(Los Angeles) to settle down there with her……..One of the 5th episodes that caught my attention was when the husband discovered holes on the duvet and he jokingly said her toe nails made the holes….Giuliana(his wife) said with laughter in voice “No honey, not my toe nails, the duvet is old, that’s why, it was a gift from my Ex boyfriend”

Guess what the husband did…he walked away saying I’m out of here with a smile…..few hours later, they went on shopping spree to buy a new duvet. They continued their lovey-dovey life. Till today their love is waxing stronger and stronger.

The essence of this story brings us to the question of the day: if you were in the man’s shoes how would you have reacted over this and as a woman would you have allowed your husband to sleep on the same bed sheet/duvet your ex boyfriend gave you as a gift years back when you were dating him?

21 comments:

Anonymous said...

THE ARGUMENT WILL NOT HAVE PART TWO, WHAT NONSENSE

Rita said...

My fiance we are not married yet, d last time he saw my ex phone number ordinary phone no. not stored on my handset,in one of old diary i dumped somewhere in d house created quarrel,verbal fight that we almost broke up that day....we didnt talk for over 2 weeks it was friends to intervene,i had to apologise O!since every item of my ex..whether pen or whatever it was i discarded them how much more lie down on d same bedsheet,he abandon...I know very very well is possesive of me

Damiola said...

Lucky u,mine was similar but this was my girlfriend,apparently she has been calling and seeing her ex at my back,I trusted her but when i found out,i had to end d r/ship...u can trust a woman but they vunerable unfortunately so left to me any ex is ex nothing shld be brought back as memories,which might rekindle the love they shared, as Bill he is a man who tolerates...i can't

Anonymous said...

But Vivien how are u so show off d camera Bill didnt scolded her since it took fews to go shopping4 another sheet

Anonymous said...

But Vivien how are u so show off d camera Bill didnt scolded her since it took fews to go shopping4 another sheet

Amme said...

Didnt read d story well, Bill laughed over saying he is out of here, loves her and trust...that's a mature mind,some Nigerian men their mentality is so wrong...i hope u learn from ds everything shld turn2 argument

Mrs Ameachi said...

This what we are facing with some of our Nigerian men, my husband is worse,his brothers are even better, we have thrown words at each on such issues, my ex boyfriend we broke up amicably bc of our genotype differences,our love fell apart bc of that,we've been family friends ever since we were kids...he tells me to never see him, talk to him when we run into each other,NOT that we plan to meet BUT met coincidentally,he is happy with his wife,im happy with hubby. The day i went out with my husband and two kids to watch a movie we ran into each other,i only waved from afar,that night,argument upon argument, that has resulted me to comparing him with is brothers which i know is wrong to do...I love him but this area of Exs brings out d worse in him.....ive learnt that some men are soldiers and will do anything to prevent their women from Exs of any form of communication while others handle it maturely like Bill

Anonymous said...

Bill u try...anyway,na white,which sensible woman will do such, so what it was a gift, d more reason why u shld burn it

Anonymous said...

Guilliana bf Bill moved in with u, im sure it wasnt one day notice...u shld have gone shopping and getting rid of d past, im disappointed

Okoyo said...

I follow d show i watched that episode,Bill truly loves Guilliana if d marriage breaks up it come from her, she takes a lot of things4 granted, imagine giving ur hubby a present that was given to by office that has it signature on it that says to Gullianna fron E News on ur BD.The Bill being d gentleman he is said actually...honey be more sensitive ....and that was all, they have not had kids in yrs,4one day never cheated on her....so Gulliana or any woman there that tends to act towards dimension...not good...so change ur ways be mor sensitive towards ur man

Anonymous said...

Eehe!what crime has she committed, man was in Chicgo every now and then he comes,sleeping on her ex..duvet,has that killed him, if she didnt spill would he have found,ds things are irrelevant in a marriage it takes a mature mind to marry that's why Bill didnt see it as any big deal

Cole said...

I'll woos her one slap and apologise later,next time shld will know i dont condone such

Nwayo said...

My woman know,she cant try it

Amina said...

Ki ni big deal,Nigerian men...did i hear say u slap her over a duvet?

Tolu said...

Some men are like babies,u need to pet them like a new born baby4 d love to continue to wax...it's like a child playing with so many toys u get d baby a new toy he abadons d old one to focus on d new, d moment u give one of d old toys to another baby just for few hours u hear ur baby cry like he has not been fed all day. Men,very sensitive i never see

Anonymous said...

Marriage is abt trust, the Bill loves and trust her that's the bottom line

Anonymous said...

This can't happen in African it's only over u see and hear ds kind of rubbish, where is her priority, im movin in to ur apartment bc of i want to be closer,not i cant afford my own place that what i get is a big deal

Anonymous said...

Of course Bill must have scolded her off camera which man wont

Obi said...

I wont walk away smiling,I'll keep a straight face that is an offense by d way,why shld i smile.

Stella said...

Obi what kind of offense if i may ask, where is it written,in d bible or law book abeg educate me,in my 3yrs of legal practice i've not come to any such law

Anonymous said...

lol! Stella ds guys joor....Bill& Guliana really show love from d little i saw on d link