Oyinda says some men call their women(girlfriends) prostitute
when they ask for money….she says it is not right and such women should get out
of the relationship if the men are not ready to take care of them… or not
supporting their businesses, how can they be having free sex just like
that?????
She is of the opinion that a prostitute is an enterprise and
those who engage in it know that it’s business for them and they are not
ashamed of admitting to it,they ask for money before or after the sex, that it
is of two different world, your girlfriend is your responsibility and a
prostitute is a whore no mistaken about that.
In a relationship! Is a stingy man an irresponsible person? Hear what my guests said they should do to that man.
In a relationship! Is a stingy man an irresponsible person? Hear what my guests said they should do to that man.
If you are dating a rich man and he says he will not give
you money until you marry him, will you continue to date him????
If you work in a highly paid organization say you are
earning 1million naira should your spouse or boyfriend continue to give you monthly
allowance?
So much heat on this conversation please leave your opinion
o our comment section on the youtube and our Instagram handle
IG :vivienaliam
Twitter: Xpressurself_tv
Banky was caught in the middle when he says the right thing to do
is to abstain from sex before marriage….
Banky went on to say some women are feminist but they do not
want to take the position of that. Asking for equal right of that of a man, then
they should be willing to pay bills and take the responsibilities men do.
Oyinda is on point some men are full of shit,they want to chop but wont want to take of the lady.
ReplyDeleteMy girl Oyinda you spoke every woman's mind.
Thank you for that.
This show is airing on what channel.
ReplyDeletePlease let us get the station. I want to participate. I showed my husband,the part where Oyinda talked about don't impose it on a woman is an eye opener. I married my husband as an expatriate and obviously i earned more but he tried to make it look like its my duty to take care of the home,pay school fees,pay house rent,it was a problem o that external family had to intervene.
Luckily he for him he got a better offer which gave good money and far better than mine.
I was ready to pack my belongings,because the thought of be being a mother, a wife and now he wants to turn me to a man by doing what he should be doing was like someone just used a digger into my stomach. The first one month during the fight i was already looking 10times older than my age.
How many Ibo man can do that,NEVER the ibo is too proud,he knows the rule as a man.I am not surprised that coming from the Yoruba. I have sworn not to marry from my tribe,the Yoruba have no regards for their woman
ReplyDeleteOyinda is blabbing. Vivien next time put her and mike so he can quietly put her in her place.
ReplyDeleteLaugh wan kill me o Oyinda take it easy na or na from experience
ReplyDeleteI love the topics
ReplyDeleteBanky is a gentle man he was trying to be civil that is why i like mike and victoria he gave it to her
ReplyDeleteVivien's style is very subtle,she throws the bomb shell questions and leave the quests to break their head. I like it, its different no too much interruptions like what you see and hear on radio,they ask questions and they end up giving out the answers.
ReplyDeleteBut the sound was low
Well done vivien.
Banky throw away face dier which is sex after marriage. That is why you find men cheating on their wives because they did not test the water before diving.
ReplyDeleteEveryone out there test the water first or else you wont believe what will follow you after wards.
My cousin is still in shock from the mistake he made marrying before sexing his woman
Hmmmn,what about unwanted STIs,HIV and pregnancies.You really think its worth it?
DeleteLaugh wan kill me here. Which one be wait till he marries me,the man na goat
ReplyDeleteVivien you have to pay me for this ear piece i just bought simply to hear yourguests
ReplyDeleteOyinda like so many women like the idea of feminism but wont want to take the responsibility that goes with it.
ReplyDeleteThey want to eat their cake and have it.
Yes there is a big difference between free sex and sex for money,free sex you no wan do but you wan please the man,yet you no ask for money.
ReplyDeleteIts clear and simple.
Vivien is a clever host and that is why she was asking again and again what is prostitution,u na dey there they give dictionary definition
There is nothing like free sex,when a woman is married or dating she gets money from the man,to take care of her. This will never change, abroad something has to give it may not be money, it may be time and emotions.is it easy to be devoted to one person?
ReplyDelete@tunde you are talking out point
ReplyDeleteOyinda which one be girl child for the matter
ReplyDeleteOyinda even if it is only motivational speech he gives, a woman will also demand for money,i get you but that your motivational speech no hold water
ReplyDeleteTypical of Tiwa Savage and her hubby. it was real lesson for most women.
ReplyDeleteMan woman matter its never ending
ReplyDeleteProstitution,exchange and feminism very catchy.
ReplyDeletei couldnt upload but got the gist from the write up.
Let me be your sound man. fire that guy he does not know his work
ReplyDeleteIs my Oyinda feeling like a star
ReplyDeleteIts true Oyinda is just feeling.
ReplyDeleteOne day too me i will appear on camera
I really love Oyinda on this show,she said the truth. Men should take care of their women
ReplyDeleteBanky how can you say Nigeria is ready for female president,how?
ReplyDeleteOmo! una try,i played this in my car when i get home i will settle down to watch.
ReplyDeleteNigerian men are full of it, i cannot see my self with one
ReplyDeleteAs Christians it is the right thing to do but do they themselves practice abstaining from sex. dont let me expose some pastors that secretly sleep with virgins
ReplyDeleteHypocrites everywhere. Interesting topic
ReplyDelete@sophie you are yarning dust,i am sure you leave in okokomiako and want to claim not dating Nigerian men. are your parents not Nigerian?
ReplyDeleteNot every man is a man according to Victoria,so dont be rubbishing us.
There is no free sex and having sex for fun the man still have to drop money
ReplyDeleteBanky you are talking as if we men will willigly give you money without having sex with them,lets face the truth we men ensure we chop well for what we are maintaining
ReplyDeleteProstitution is a business enterprise. shine your eye. Oyinda you dont know that there are highly classified prostitutes. Our Nigerian actresses from Geneieve to Omosexy to Stephenie and all these mushroom actresses are doing runz highly classified how can they come out ad declare publicly that they are prostitutes.
ReplyDeleteDubai runz,you will see a banker demanding for money to a client to sleep with him so she can get him as a client to open an account in her bank.
😱😱😱😱
Delete2017 was full of stingy men this year i have told myself if any stingy man gets in my way i will publicly disgrace him
ReplyDeleteGbam! Oyinda thank you.
ReplyDeleteStupid man. I shud starve with all your money abi. Untill i get married to you,they no born well
ReplyDeleteStingy is a stingy. My mother will say money only amplies who you are.
ReplyDeleteYes Oyinda nailed it. Foolish men they use different types of schemes to be little a woman,tools and cat calling.
ReplyDeleteThose words dont bother me,he must drop. How can he funk me for free.Which side.
How you know a man is stingy ask him to take you out and you end up coming with your friends,if he manages to buy for you and your friend and watches you guys eat, take off,he is stingy,he did not eat because he is counting how much he has spent on you and your friends
ReplyDeletePlease bring Mike udoh back on this topic,he would have given us another food for thought on this issue. banky is not telling it as it should.
ReplyDeleteMen who dont have work swoop roles
ReplyDeleteInformative topics.
ReplyDeletethe creator,the producer you guys rock
I love this babe,Vivien you are too much
ReplyDeletemen stop blackmailing us o,or i will call Oyinda to come and fight for us.
ReplyDeleteBut the truth shud be said men use all sort of tools to discourage a girl from asking
Oyinda my girl,this was for you banky was to reserved
ReplyDeleteOyinda tell these lazy men. Tell them
ReplyDeleteYes a man is the provider and protector
ReplyDeleteVivien are you a Nigerian?
ReplyDeleteOyinda shhhh! free sex exist
ReplyDeleteVivien I think banky gave you the answer on free sex
ReplyDeleteWhy is Banky is trying not to offend Oyind why? when she said when girl complains in a r/ship its ok,you said no it wrong and later said its ok,stick to ur opinion.
ReplyDeleteMen do they want to be men or nay love oyinda
ReplyDeleteWe need Oyinda and mike together to talk about this topic,Vivien it will over heat. we are looking forward to it.
ReplyDeleteVivien that your expression when you were asking what is free sex is priceless
ReplyDeleteIs marriage like a price? what you see in a relationship is what you get in a marriage. Oyinda i have fallen in love with you,you said gbam
ReplyDeleteI love your show,you are so beautiful.Love your voice everything about you. Please i want to come for your show,I will love to meet you in person
ReplyDeleteGreat topic but poor sound and noise from the background,didnt the sound man filter the noise?
ReplyDeleteWomen are looked down all over the world. some advanced countries it is not too obvious but it is there
ReplyDeletemen pick a struggle. are you a man or nay
ReplyDeleteNa people like Oyinda wey make me run from having a girlfriend,her sense is too much and her mouth too sharp
ReplyDeleteWhich one be modern world,same men will say i dont want processed food,i dont want any maid cooking my food
ReplyDeleteMen are like babies,same man will tell you i want you to hand pick my undies and put them in the washing machine as if my hand will do magic if the maid does not that
ReplyDeletemarriage is a conquest to find a good woman to marry now, it is easier for a camel to go through the need than see the a good woman to marry
ReplyDeleteThis topic na die.
ReplyDeleteHow una come up with the questions
Oyinda is a feminist
ReplyDeleteClassy show. tasteful
ReplyDeleteAsking for money is prostitution. SIMPLE
ReplyDeleteSo as a married woman whose husband sleeps every week with her and each week she needs money so she asks him immediately before sex or after sex, is she a prostitute?
ReplyDeleteMost women ask their husbands for money before sex, because that is when the men will listen very well,it has become their style
ReplyDeleteWhat makes you a man?
ReplyDeleteOyinda you are darling thank you
These two should get married they look so beautiful together
ReplyDeleteHow many women can give out 100% of what they claim want equal right how?when. no matter how we try to copy the white man it ain't going to happen see the developed world it is not really there its just the law that has contained it
ReplyDeleteLove you Vivien.Your show you gave the impression of not knowing it all,carefully allowing the audience to air their views without interrupting by letting us know its your show,its cool and classing.Others should take note. #toke makinwa relationship expert...lol
ReplyDeleteI conqur, there shld be a line between a career and a personal life
ReplyDeleteA Nigerian man wld want to fuck da hell out of yu for every damn money he puts on you
ReplyDeleteIf you give a man an opportunity he will want to have free sex for as long as you are allow him. It is only a responsible who know how to take care of a woman
ReplyDelete@ Desmond that means all women are prostitute because they ask their husbands too for money when they want to have sex r after sex,@bigbe that justifies his statement
ReplyDeleteThe lady yarning dust on how to know who is stingy by taking his girlfriend out with er friends and him not eating,have you thought of he had lunch somewhere else before taking them out,that is a dumb way to analyse it.
ReplyDeleteNo mind am all the Toke makinwa wanna be na them they fall mugu pass. see how mouth like she knows how to detect a stingy guy
ReplyDeleteA responsible man should not be stingy,he should be happy to see his woman happy.when he is spending on her there should be joy in doing so.
ReplyDeleteThis is not an avenue to toss here o concentrate on the topic.
ReplyDeleteSome people sef
Ah Banky you sef fall hand,how can you say Nigeria don ready for female president
ReplyDeleteFree sex,and sex for fun are the same thing
ReplyDeleteInteresting.
ReplyDeleteOh my!
ReplyDeleteVivien you killed it,looking good.
Good show.
Thank you cassandra i was going to say that.
ReplyDeleteMen want arwuf...free things
Women are like eggs so all these men talking nonsense how did you woo your wives. Did you not impress with your money.
ReplyDeleteI spoil my wife silly before i married her
Isn't it better to pick the ashe and pay less,besides variety is the spice of life.
ReplyDeleteRelentless vivien ,love too much. 6years you have been chasing your passion
ReplyDeleteOyinda your parents were married to give birth to you
ReplyDeleteNo man is innocent,we all fornicate.
ReplyDeleteErem are u a virgin?
Stingy men do not change so are rude people it is there nature
ReplyDeleteYou guys should talk some senses to my cousin,she has been dating this good for no man,he is even stingy to himself. My cousin sold almost her property to help his business,he earns N2million every 3months ordinary car he cannot buy for her,she has been using same old car for the past five years.
ReplyDeleteI think he has jazzed her.
who pays for the washer man because you need somebody to put the clothes in the machine and iron them too.
ReplyDeleteI am a man and we should act like one.
Oyinda mouth dey run sha
ReplyDeleteIntelligent people intelligent answers
ReplyDeleteok
ReplyDeleteNothing like feminism,we men are the captain of the ship. That is why Dami and Chris Arthur divorced. you cannot have two captain in a ship.
ReplyDelete@cassandra, you should always use condom,do not sleep with any man who is not your spouse unprotected
ReplyDeleteWomen and Money, they were born to demand for money. If not Adam will not have fallen into sin,who was the cause? was it not woman.
ReplyDeleteMen can blackmail,they act like babies
ReplyDeleteNot impressed with Banky's anwer where Oyinda asked "so if a man is naturally stingy and she is demanding for money by saying i am " iam even sleeping with you and you are not giving me money''
ReplyDeleteI am a woman but that is a horrible way to demand or ask for money.
Please.please hold up! babra what are you saying so its ok to be asking a man for money,is he a child that wont know that he should give his woman money without her asking and then she now ask and he is calling her names,is it ok??babra eh,all this hyporites trying too hard to be a good picture here.
ReplyDeleteA man who is stingy and gets rude response should not complain.
A rude woman is no go area for us all men,its repulsive
ReplyDeleteWe all love Vivien well done
ReplyDeleteWomen are just wahala
ReplyDeleteI have borrowed money to spend on a girl only for her to turn her back on me,she was sleeping with another man for free,so sorry i dont regard women anymore
ReplyDeleteI must see the girl naked before i drop any more money,give a girl my hard earned money for ds recession for free say watin happen
ReplyDeleteStingy men were born stingy,is not that the dabbled into wealth,its their nature,i once dated one i had to run for my dear life. He was rich but to spend the money was a problem.
ReplyDeleteI dont know if he thinks he will go with the money when he dies
@Chindo,maybe he belongs to secret cult
ReplyDeleteI wonder all these women who open their skirt for men without protection and the men are not married them,if they were my sister i will slap the hell out her face
ReplyDeleteYou must be dumb @Isreal,marriage is a contract with witnesses and it is the only recognized contract in a relationship.,that your statement put all men and human to shame.
ReplyDeleteLet all women say the truth we relate sex with money
ReplyDeleteBanky seems shy talking about this topic,Oyinda is very comfortable and she was pouring out her heart
ReplyDeleteWomen fear them o,they can ruin your life
ReplyDeleteLove the set up very cool
ReplyDeleteThe director should control the external sound next time,but quite interesting
ReplyDeleteWe women deserve the best however it is
ReplyDeleteAn engaging show
ReplyDeleteFeminism serious matter. Nigerian women are trying so hard to copy copy the whites but it can never work
ReplyDeleteWe are Africans nothing can change that.
To be quite honest Oyinda made good points
ReplyDeleteBanky please be more real next time
ReplyDeleteKudos to you guys
ReplyDeleteBanky even when you said there was no sound of conviction from your mouth.
ReplyDeleteLaugh wants to kill me here o.
ReplyDeleteHow is Nigeria ready,when ordinary being a female president in small organizations are as tough as going to see babalawo
Hiss.
ReplyDeleteA society where the male thinks a woman's position is the kitchen and bedroom
Another man's meat is another man's poison.
ReplyDeleteA classy person does not have to come from a wealthy home,i think a class is something you are born with
In my school Atlantic Hall,the son of one of the richest people in Nigeria does not display any of the qualities yes he buys designers but his attitude is appalling. He eats like a dog,his manner of dressing very ghetto if you ask me,but the outfits i know are costly. His combo is repelling
A trash is a prostitute they are many of them,they are coded ones like the actresses. Geneieve Nnaji but she set d pace for the rest of her colleagues. She appears all classy from the outside but what this W***e did to my rich uncle was unforgivable 200,8 till today he has not recovered.
ReplyDeleteToke Makinwa I cannot stand her. as fake as her looks so is her trashy attitude,she can deceive those little girls who are still finding their feet certainly not learned people like us
different strokes for different folks, what i call class is different if i start to list it,it only for the cream d la cream
ReplyDeleteSome people look expensive and they have money but they are classless.
ReplyDeleteIf someone wants it that bad they can pay to be classy or to become classy,but most of them dont care . They believe with their money they can get anything and the so called classy ones
Nigeria is not near there yet for a female president.
ReplyDeleteBanky keep dreaming till your grandchildren are 60years old
she is forming jor
ReplyDeleteThat mind all ds babes forming everywhere,there is this girl we all grew up in Ogba she has not crossed the bridge but if you hear her speak you will think she grew up and schooled in the US
ReplyDeleteYes na it is called packaging most of the OAP never stepped their foot out of Lagos but their funne na die,but with time and good salary they got to travel out
ReplyDeleteWho is classy and who is trashy,tough because everyone is forming
ReplyDeleteA classy person is always confident and comports him or herself anywhere not just in the public,while a trash will always be loud mouthed, talk out of point and want to show off at every given opportunity
ReplyDeleteInteresting question.
ReplyDeleteHmmn
ReplyDeleteInteresting
ReplyDelete