Wednesday 6 June 2018

What value are you adding to your man as a wife or girlfriend

To all my beautiful ladies it’s time for us to Xpress ourselves on this serious issue about what value we are adding to the men in our lives…..what value are you adding to your man or boyfriend or your partner….. In Africa it is the duty of a man to provide for his family or for his partner. To those dating it is the guy that provides for his girl………. Even the bible says it’s a man's duty to provide for the home…..but remember as a woman its your duty to support him. I was prompted to xpress this as a result of the loads of email I got from some men on how they have suffered in the hands of their women in so many instances, I am going to focus on just these crucial points for now 1. An Emotional abuse 2. Sex deprivation 3. Lack of Appreciation It is not that the men do not have their own issues …O yes! they do and we will be tackling that in our next video…….Men you guys cannot do without us..ooooo and they are fully aware of it. Women are strong o! it is really not easy being a woman but we love it…right ladies……........lol Common now and Xpressurself………

31 comments:

Gabriel said...

Our Nigerian girls are lazy.They are not vision driven,they do not want bring any thing to the table apart from sex,cook and take of the children,because they just want do nothing.So dependent on a man,though it is important for a man to provide for his woman,why on earth does a woman want to be a full house wife,even as a girl friend have something doing,the rich men most of them are working or doing something

Dami said...

Efin ni wa Behaviour is like a flame,it is a smoke that cannot hide,no matter how a woman hides her character,it will definitely show

Joe said...

You give birth to the children they will eventually grow up and start their own lives,afterall when you made your convenant at the alter the children were not there so give what belongs to the children to the children
motherly love) then give what becomes to your husband what is his,which is love ,appreciation,sex,respect,(looking sexy.....very very important,the bum shot,bikini

Emeka said...

I dont understand our girls these days,why would a girl have more than one boyfriend,this chick was so proud,she says she is in her prime and needs money,so she can afford to move to the next if the man does not dance to her tune

Nasir said...

There bad women out there o,god give us good ones ooooo

Moses said...

My girlfriend opened her mouth to tell me if she cooks,gives me sex,respect me so when we get married what is next for her to give then,that she has to reserve some untill marriage.
Of course that was the end of our relationship

Ekaye said...

Oh my love for you Vivien is out of this world,what are doing to me na.Agree for me na

Nora said...

All these men trying to save data,watch the video,she is talking about emotiobal abuse,appreciation and being sexy,which is being lazy and not working.
African men,i cant deal. Tufikwa

Aigbona said...

Ask them oooooooo

Miracle said...

This your pose. softly softly make you no wound us for here we dey

Owoto said...

Vivien I know u,we were in university 2003

Indoru said...

I have given up on my woman, i do what makes me happy,hanging out most times outside,even on weekends,i do not want to go crazy

ichukwuka said...

Ta which one be flower for mouth,we dey america,come down to earth. Your points are good,hope women will learn

Nnenne said...

I stopped a long to please my man,i am very pretty,i was good to him,sexy was my name,i work with a foreign company,i make good money,i was not demanding,he does not give me anything not on even on my birthday, i used to surprise at his work place with gifts,i was romatic,my friends laughed at me each time i make such moves,i learnt so much sexy moves to please him..what pained me was when i saw his text messages to other women.
Tell me what is the point of going to the extra mile for him

Uwe said...

Sorry Nnenna,all men are the same.why do we try sef.
We bear the children,take care of the home,do our best to make them happy in bed and yet they cheat.So where is the motivation to do these Vivien Listed above,please im done with pleasing

Becky said...

Really

Laura said...

Hold your man well . Men are hard to find ,the women are everywhere,you women dont know #Aminatsecret
If anyone abuse me on this my comment,the oldest man in my village will hunt you

IHOMA said...

That is it o my dear,we are trying as women,lets see what you have for the men

Tobe said...

iMAGINE WHAT A GIRL OPENED HER MOUTH TO TELL HER GUY SHE IS IN HER PRIME,IS THAT WHY SHE IS JUMPING FROM ONE MAN TO ANOTHER

Kemdi said...

Na Yoruba girl wey in ways no pure.Igbo girl respect relationship and marriage

Rita said...

Vivien is there part two,what happened to the glasses,when I was all ears the video ended i hope you have the continuation

Bolaji said...

Interesting package,you ahve an admirer

Robert said...

Standing ovation on this one,good stuff

Brian said...

Me that has been tossing you for ages,how you treat me ,use that as a yard stick. I know you have a man but give me a chance i might be your shinning armour. baby girl what do you say.I have slid to your instagram,sent several meesages,got your mobile from somebody sent you whatsapp message but you wont reply ,common woman give a chance

Abigail said...

Vivien ok we ear i cannot wait for the mens'. please do not be partial

Miran said...

Thank you for the tip as newly wed I definitely need this

Andel said...

You look the part,sexy,clasy and cool headed.
Love me o

Seyi said...

The seduction worked,the flower and the dress. You are on my mind all day.

Ije said...

All these men,read and learn stop looking at her in a sexy way.
The message is for women and you are here admiring what is not yours

Kess said...

Please can I be your friend

Edo said...

Interesting